I’m the one who asked the male members a question earlier, starting with something like “This may be a naive question.”

I’m Saito♪, a columnist. > When it’s one man and several women, is there anything you keep in mind when choosing the women? Above all, make sure the women are enjoying themselves—just as Seattle-san said, by acting like a host. If you focus too much attention on one particularly cute woman, the others will notice right away and the atmosphere will die. The key is to treat all the women equally. > When it’s several men and one woman, is there anything you keep in mind when choosing the men? I’ve never been in that situation. I always bring together more women than men.

I’m Seattle, a male member. That’s the kind of thoughtful consideration you’d expect from a host. A host’s attentiveness is what matters most. As long as you’re both comfortable with it, take that brave first step and enjoy yourselves.