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Dec 9, 2019 21:59
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪
As Ikkyu’s answer suggests, I think what makes a man happiest is letting him know that you’re willing to go to a private room.
On top of that, if you offer several alternative dates, I feel men are more likely to respond gentlemanly.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> If I get my period when I meet him for the second time, should I tell him?
I think telling him would make him like you more.
> How should I tell him?
I think you can just be straightforward.
“I got my period, so would dinner only be okay? Or would you rather reschedule for another day?”
Would that come across as too calculated?
I also feel like his response might give me some idea of what kind of person he is. (lol)
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
It may be a difficult call, but perhaps it’s best to tell her exactly how you feel and let things unfold from there.
She may suggest something like:
“Let’s just do dinner only...”
“Let’s reschedule...”
and so on.
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in my 30s and a new member.
If you’re a Type C, I think you should definitely mention it upfront, but with Type B, it’s understandable to hesitate. Telling them beforehand could be taken as indicating that you’re open to an adult relationship (intimate), so I think it’s fine to tell only the men you feel you’d be open to that with.
For men you’re still undecided about, you could meet them without saying anything first. If they bring up an adult relationship (intimate) and you feel you might want to move forward with them, you could say, “I’m on my period… maybe next time♡”
With men you feel you can’t go beyond dinner, I think it’s safest to be honest and tell them at the second meeting, “I’d prefer dinner only (no intimacy).”
If you still haven’t decided whether to move forward, why not honestly tell them how you feel and leave things pending for now?
Some of the male members might get angry at me for saying this, haha, but personally, I think that’s perfectly fine for a Type B.