I’m Saito, a column writer♪
Stimulation eventually becomes familiar, so there’s no single “number one” experience that stands out forever. If I had to name one, it would probably be anything involving the keyword “first.”
① Being intimate with a woman I’m meeting for the first time
② The first time I experienced it myself
③ The first time I tried something new
Basically, it comes down to these three. After that, no matter how exciting things get, familiarity inevitably becomes part of the experience.
30s, new member here.
I don’t have much experience with anything out of the ordinary, so I’ll leave that to the other respondents and offer a different perspective. One experience that still sticks in my mind happened last week at a men’s esthetic salon I visited for a massage.
At these salons, you’re not allowed to touch the woman, and I had absolutely no intention of doing anything like that anyway. It’s close to my workplace, so I mainly go there for massages when I’m tired. But the woman who handled me that day was the type to push things pretty far while watching my reactions. She asked, “How long do you think you can hold out?” In other words, she was asking how far I could go without touching her. I replied, “I can hold out as long as it takes. I’m pretty good at controlling myself.” That was how our little “endurance contest” began—and it was incredibly exciting.
She kept stimulating me right on the edge, using oil to tease every imaginable part of me. She tried every possible way to make me lose control. By that point, I was already extremely worked up, but she still wouldn’t touch my shaft.
When my desire for her to touch it reached its peak, she slowly dripped hot oil onto it from above. I couldn’t help letting out a sound, and I came dangerously close to losing my composure, lol.
I somehow managed to endure it without touching her, right up to the limit. The experience felt completely opposite to what I usually do, which was refreshing, and holding back somehow made my senses feel sharper, as though my whole body had become more sensitive.
The woman also told me, “Amazing! You’re the first person who’s ever made it all the way through! Everyone always reaches out. You’re really incredible!” I’m sure she was just saying that, but it still made me happy to be praised, lol.
What am I even talking about here?
I did learn that skin really can be an erogenous zone.
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
For me, it’s the kind of soap play you get at a soapland.
Every part of the experience, expertly tailored to men’s sensitive areas, was incredibly exciting.
If you’re looking for exciting play, I recommend a well-known soapland.
Unfortunately, I haven’t met anyone at a dating club who offers that kind of exciting experience.
Personally, rather than seeking exciting play at a dating club, I’m looking for the thrill of meeting someone new and an enjoyable experience together—including conversation.
