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Oct 24, 2019 13:05
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I’m Saito, the columnist♪
Hmm, maybe I’m just used to it—I’ve never really paid much attention.
I’d actually love to ask the women what makes them think, “This guy really knows the ropes.” Haha.
There were two women who tried to add an extra amount on top of the agreed allowance during intimacy. They’re just fond memories now.
I hope they’re doing well and still seeing a good papa. Haha.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’m not sure whether you could call it “being highly skilled at papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan),” but I have met someone who was very good at handling relationships.
To be perfectly honest, I suspected she was misleading people about her relationship type, but even I had to nod and think, “Hmm…”
I can’t share the details here, but to put her approach in one word: brilliant!
She has since left the site, and I haven’t met anyone like her either before or after.
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I’m a male member, BB7.
I think women who create and fully play the role of a “well-put-together mistress” are especially skilled at papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
For example, they’ll see you off until you’re out of sight, send a thoughtful thank-you message right after saying goodbye, give you a handwritten note, keep smiling even when they’re unhappy, bring a small gift to the first meeting, or send messages showing that they’re thinking of you. It makes me think, “She’s really putting in the effort.”
Of course, when it comes time to end things or a problem comes up, their true personality tends to show.
If there are women who can keep up the act all the way to the end, that’s pretty impressive.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in my 30s and new to this.
She worked in entertainment and was a lovely woman, so I was fine with an allowance of 10 after dinner. But when I asked if we could meet more often—for example, just for dinner—she said dinner-only would be 5.
I guess women in the entertainment industry really do expect that much^^;