It’s been 10 months since I joined Universe.

I’m Saito, a column writer♪ He sounds like a creepy guy who’s obsessed with engaging in prohibited acts at a delivery health service. That said, as everyone has pointed out, even if it’s not possible the first time, things might work out if there’s good chemistry, he gives a more generous allowance, maintains a long-term relationship, and shows a reasonable amount of sincerity. If not, perhaps the woman has her own reasons for stringing him along with dinner only (no intimacy). Good chemistry → She may simply be pretending to feel the same way. Giving a more generous allowance → The fact that he doesn’t state a specific amount may be one reason women aren’t interested in him. It’s hard to say without hearing the woman’s side as well.

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. > Is the woman categorized as B keeping her guard up? Am I getting a little impatient? You’re being far too impatient. I also get the feeling that you may not fully understand what B means. Before talking about whether her guard is high or low, a B woman wants to go home after dinner only on the first date. It simply means there may be a possibility from the second date onward. So, inviting a B woman to an adult relationship from the very first date means you come across as an ungentlemanly man who is ignoring her wishes. You may already have received a negative review from a woman without realizing it. If she answers “No” to the items asking whether the man confirmed things with her, that feedback isn’t conveyed to you. If the next woman answers “Yes,” the club may contact you to verify what happened. You might think, “Can’t you overlook it just this once?” But in reality, it may be your third or fourth complaint. Men are usually shocked when they find that out. If there have been that many complaints, the club may even discuss forcibly expelling you. What you thought was your first incident may actually put you right on the verge of being removed. Of course, if you gently confirm things with her and it turns out she was simply referring to a future date, and she wasn’t uncomfortable, then there shouldn’t be a problem. Still, you should put yourself in her shoes and think carefully about whether your actions made her uncomfortable. You could also give her a more generous allowance so she doesn’t become upset. Any approach is fine, as long as you ensure she doesn’t feel uncomfortable. If you can’t do that, it’s safest not to invite a B woman to an adult relationship on the first date. Please review once again what the different relationship types mean.

A confused man in his 60s. Questions like this—or rather, bragging like this—keep coming up… If he’s inviting Type B women without considering their feelings, isn’t he simply someone who can’t follow the rules?

East Customer Loyalty Group Aizawa from Tokyo here. Women classified as Dating Type B generally say, “I’d prefer dinner only on the first day because I’m nervous, but I may consider an adult relationship from the second meeting onward.” So, with Type B, it’s perfectly normal for things to end after dinner only. Type C means they may consider an adult relationship from the very first meeting, depending on the chemistry. So from her perspective, you may be a really great man.