Tips Sep 21, 2019 09:47

I’m fascinated by Lula’s “miracle matching.”

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It seems like it depends a lot on luck, but how many months or years does it take to get there? How much investment is needed along the way? For the male respondents, what was it like based on your own experience? (Personally, I’m estimating around one to two years and ¥20–30 million, but…)
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斉藤さんだぞ♪
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪ In my case, we’ve been seeing each other for a long time, so it feels like a wonderful kind of momentum has continued. You only really understand a truly remarkable arrangement after being together for a while. If I had to put it into words, the ideal end point is a relationship where you don’t think, “They must have met through a dating club…” The amount comes to around ¥40 million a year, including allowances, arrangement fees, and other expenses. Once you include meals, hotels, and so on, it comes to just under ¥100 million. The club staff may already know this, but I can easily spend around ¥2 million on a single meal, so that ends up costing more. (It’s mostly the wine.) Also, the arrangement fees tend to jump dramatically when there’s even one particularly expensive woman involved. (There’s been someone recently whose cost is almost too much to mention…) Branded goods are far cheaper when bought overseas, but since I often purchase them on the spot, I usually buy them in Japan.
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I’m Rura, a male member of UC and a member of the new salon. I’m honored that you mentioned my name. Thank you ☆ I met this woman through my third introduction at THE SALON. Before that, over the course of a year at Universe Club, I had made offers to around 20 women, mainly in the Black and Platinum categories. I had also become a VIP member at other dating clubs, including 〇yama Platinum (this club is raising its prices because of the consumption tax, haha), and met around five women there. On top of that, I met about ten women through SugarDaddy. Including the allowances I gave the women, my total investment came to roughly 8 million yen. That said, this is all ultimately a matter of luck. I should also add that a “miracle match” does not necessarily mean a woman who is 100% the type I had envisioned. The first and second women I met through THE SALON were almost exactly what I had described to the concierge beforehand. However, although we continued seeing each other for several months, things eventually came to an end. With the woman who became my miracle match, we naturally hit it off from the start, but there was also a certain sense that we were feeling each other out. In fact, about a month and a half passed between our first and second meetings—not because either of us was particularly busy, but simply because it happened that way. There are several ways in which she clearly differs from the type I had imagined, but these days, I find those differences endearing too. I think a “miracle match” only comes about when two miracles overlap: the miracle of meeting that person in the first place, and the miracle of realizing it yourself. It really makes me appreciate just how fascinating dating clubs can be…
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迷わない70代
パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中(笑)
Age: 70 or older 👨 Male Former Universe member
I’m in my 60s and still trying to find my way. Thanks to beginners’ luck, I met someone who, even looking back now, I can only describe as a “miracle match”… So as for how much I’ve invested, I believe the membership fee was free, and I only paid for the gold membership registration. After that, just imagine it as something like a gambling addiction—I got hooked on that beginners’ luck… lol
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