Right now, I’m constantly seeing multiple women, switching from one to another. I originally joined because I wanted just one woman who felt like a girlfriend. Is this the allure of dating clubs? I’m worried that I may be gradually losing my way without even realizing it.

Kida here, answering your question. Well, I suppose you could call it moral decline, but even if you had just one woman who was like a girlfriend, there wouldn’t be much difference from the outside. You’re going downhill either way, so rest assured. Isn’t it less the magic of the dating club and more that you simply like women? Biologically speaking, I don’t think there’s anything particularly wrong with that, so please feel free to keep switching from one to another with peace of mind. I doubt the women are losing sleep over it or feeling jealous, either. What concerns me is that I’m having a little trouble understanding your question: 1. You joined because you wanted one woman who was like a girlfriend. 2. The magic took over, and now you keep switching from one to another. 3. “Right, I’ll ask an anonymous Q&A box.” Are you a child?! (LOL) Go watch Don Juan and learn from him. It seems you still haven’t been switching between women nearly enough. Keep aiming for the top and move forward brightly and cheerfully. A dating club is all about having multiple women, each of whom feels like your one and only girlfriend. Just to avoid any misunderstanding, the club itself recommends long-term relationships. I believe the real appeal of a dating club is finding, among several women, someone you can build a long-term relationship with. I’ll be quietly rooting for you until you meet them.