Tips Sep 5, 2019 08:08

[Thanks] I’m the careless person who kept posting my so-called “ways to ease” the Type B issue m(_ _;)m

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As a low-budget member who can’t afford to be excessively generous (sob), I hedge my risks when making offers even when it isn’t Type B. It has to be simple to be useful, but I decide whether to make an offer or pass based on one straightforward question: “Would I be okay with it even if the relationship stalled at dinner only (no intimacy)?” It’s not often that I feel that way about a woman, so sticking to this policy has thankfully allowed me to cut my expenses quite drastically (笑). Also, following this policy forces me to reflect on “What is it that I truly want right now?” That lets me learn more about myself, which is of course more valuable than sex. Regarding this topic, continuing any further might cause unforeseen trouble for everyone else (To “the lost man in his 60s,” I’m truly sorry you got caught in the crossfire. In fact, your stern admonition! struck me the deepest—special thanks), so I’ll bring my participation to a close here. I sincerely thank everyone for all the brilliant comments you shared in response to my clumsy series of posts. I was reminded once again that exposing oneself to other people’s opinions and criticism is truly worthwhile. Thank you all very much m(_ _)m
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迷わない70代
パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中(笑)
Age: 70 or older 👨 Male Former Universe member
I’m a lost soul in my 60s. Thank you for your concern! There are good times and bad times, but let’s all enjoy our club activities together!
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