There are too many women I want to make offers to, and I'm overwhelmed.

I’m a male member of UC and the new salon. Ah, I completely agree! There are so many wonderful women, after all. Once I meet someone, I want to keep seeing her—and honestly, I sometimes feel like putting every woman on a monthly arrangement（笑） Though that would obviously be impossible... I can also relate to the feeling of “Honestly, I wish the women would make the first move and turn me down themselves.” The personal rule I’ve recently settled on is: ☆My rule☆ “I only make offers to women who have sent me a ‘You seem wonderful.’” In my case, I’m in a position where I don’t have to worry too much about being identified, so I can make my male profile fairly detailed. I’ve even uploaded a photo from the chest up with my face blurred. Because of this rule, I’ve narrowed down the women I make offers to quite a bit. Since they have to be women who sent me a “You seem wonderful” and whom I also like, I only make an offer to about one person every few months. The only slight problem is when I really like a woman but she hasn’t sent me a “You seem wonderful”！（笑） This rule is absolute for me, so no matter how much I want to make an offer in that situation, I’m holding myself back for now. (Even I’m not quite sure why I feel this way...（笑）) I wonder what will happen from here. If there’s a woman I really like who hasn’t sent me a “You seem wonderful,” maybe I’ll ask the staff to tell her, “You’ve received an offer from someone asking you to send him a ‘You seem wonderful.’”...（笑） Once it gets to that point, I’ll just seem like a strange guy. Just sharing, in case it’s helpful.

I’m a male member in Seattle. Yes, absolutely. Personally, I’d like to have three partners. I want to pursue a long-term, serious arrangement with everyone I meet, so I only start looking for someone new after I’ve been dumped.