I’m a male member, and I’d appreciate your opinions on the allowance when traveling with a woman I’m in an adult relationship with.

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I currently give her 6 each time we meet (5 allowance + 1 for transportation). If we were to take, for example, a one-night, two-day trip to a hot-spring inn or a two-night, three-day trip to Hokkaido, I’m wondering how I should think about the allowance. I’m vaguely thinking that I would give her the usual 6, or perhaps around 10 simply because it’s a nice round number. Of course, I assume it depends on the circumstances and that there’s no single right answer. The amount would probably vary depending on the relationship between the woman and me, how much she actually wants to go on the trip, and how much I’m spending on her accommodations and transportation—such as Green Car seats, premium-class flights, or a luxury hotel. I’m sorry this is such an unfocused question, but I’d especially appreciate hearing advice from female members as well.

Answer 1

I’m Saito, the column writer♪ I think it’s reasonable to increase the allowance somewhat for travel and accommodations, and then calculate it based on the number of intimate encounters × the allowance. It probably depends not only on the amount of money, but also on the frequency, nature, and duration of the intimacy—things that haven’t been mentioned here. > In your case, I think 6 for a one-night, two-day stay at a hot spring inn, and around 10 for a two-night, three-day trip to Hokkaido would be reasonable as the usual allowance. I suppose my opinion is pretty much the same as U.S.T.’s answer...

Answer 2

I’m Joe, a columnist. This topic has come up several times before, so you may want to refer to those discussions as well. I think your approach is perfectly reasonable. In my limited experience, the first issue is whether there will be an allowance. I assume you’ve already sorted that out, regardless of the exact amount, but it might still be a good idea to confirm with her beforehand. That said, I get the impression that many women aren’t looking for an ultra-luxurious trip. I’ve actually been told, “If you’re going to stay at a ridiculously expensive hotel like that, just stay at a nice hotel and add the difference to my allowance instead” (lol). In any case, I hope you have a wonderful trip.

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