Conversation skills, a comfortable sense of closeness, and that perfect feeling of being a couple that comes from experience.
Being proactive and responsive in an adult relationship (intimate), looking attractive enough to rival women in their 20s despite being in their 30s, and the contrast in their figure.
That feeling of being accepted, and how they fulfill my need for validation.
Those are probably the main things.
With beautiful women in their 20s, I also feel like I have to be considerate in various ways, so I feel more at ease with women in their late 20s to 30s.
(I date both age groups, but the monthly arrangements that last tend to be with women in their late 20s to 30s.)
Lately, I’ve also met some wonderful women in their 40s, so perhaps the day will come when women in their 30s are considered the younger ones.
Everyone is working hard on anti-aging—good for them.
Fuu will do my best too!
I feel comfortable meeting women in their 30s.
They listen to me and are considerate. It’s an age when they really come into their own as women. They also take good care of their bodies, too (laughs).
If I were to have a relationship with a mistress, I’d probably choose someone in her 30s. I’m currently seeing two women in their 30s.
What I look for in a woman in her 30s is the ability to create a sense of being in a relationship.
Whether it’s her clothes or the way she speaks, I lose interest when she seems childish. I’m also turned off when her professional, businesslike side comes through too strongly.
In my case, I prefer women who give me a sense of stability and security.
To put it bluntly, some women in their early 20s seemed like they might struggle to function properly in a professional workplace. Of course, there were also women with common sense. That’s why, when it comes to women in their 30s, I personally prefer someone who seems more composed.
That said, it can be difficult to judge someone based only on conversations with the staff in their videos, so you really can’t know until you meet them. And if they don’t receive many offers, some women may not be able to make the most of those positive qualities.
It probably depends on the person, but I tend to avoid women with a lot of experience, so I’m not looking for any particular techniques.
Having seven favorites and three offers is actually pretty impressive.
Usually, when someone has seven favorites, they receive few or no offers. Sometimes they only get one.
So the fact that you’ve received three offers makes me wonder if there’s something particularly appealing written in your profile.
> Then I wonder if I’m failing to make the most of my appeal as a woman in my 30s.
A person’s appeal is often something you only discover after meeting them. If you’re not making the most of your appeal, then I think that probably means your photos and videos aren’t showcasing it well enough.
> I strongly feel that I need to improve things because this isn’t good enough, and I’m getting anxious.
To receive more offers, the things you should improve are your photos and videos. However, since you’ve only been registered for a month, it’s probably still too soon for a reshoot.
If you contact Maezawa through the LINE chat you use to communicate with the staff, they may be able to tell you whether there’s anything wrong with your profile.
> In one of Maezawa’s past comments, he said that women around 30 are popular.
When I sorted the profiles by number of favorites, the women with four-digit numbers of favorites were, from the top:
30, 28, 32, 26, 34, 29, 29, 30, 30, 31, 24, 25, 29, 36, …
If we consider “around 20” to mean up to age 24, there was only one woman in that age range.
The feedback about her also included comments like:
“She’s beautiful, has a great figure, and is also very considerate.”
“She was the most wonderful woman I’ve met so far.”
“Her looks and figure are both excellent.”
> What are men looking for in women in their 30s?
Basically, I think they’re looking for appearance—someone who is beautiful despite being in her 30s, or whose looks and figure haven’t faded at all.
After meeting, they seem to value someone who is considerate—a mature woman.
I feel that being with someone who doesn’t make you feel tired is important.
On the other hand, people who prefer women in their teens or 20s may be looking for the kind of fun that comes from not minding getting tired, seeing unexpected reactions, learning about current trends, or enjoying the recklessness that comes with youth.
