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I’m a Gold female member, but I’m not sure what a reasonable allowance to negotiate would be… I know it depends on the person, but what kind of amount is typical? Is this just too difficult to gauge?

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Maezawa here with an answer as well. Women who say they don’t know the going rate usually have a pretty good idea. (笑) So I don’t think you’ll make some wildly unreasonable request. I’d suggest telling the man the amount you’d be comfortable with—one you wouldn’t want to disclose publicly. What matters isn’t how much everyone else is getting, but whether you’re satisfied with the amount. He may turn you down, but there’s no point in forcing yourself to accept an amount you’re not comfortable with and pretending otherwise. Please value yourself and aim for an arrangement that feels comfortable and allows you to enjoy the experience.
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I’m a male member who’s been with the club for two and a half years—a confused man in my 60s. For some reason, there are female members who know they’re “Gold” members… Mysterious. Yet they don’t know the general guideline for negotiating an allowance… More mysteries… lol
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I’m Saito, a column writer ♪ It depends on what special skills you have and whether you’re his type—the atmosphere can change accordingly. People may say the going rate is around 40,000–50,000 yen, but…
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