Well, the answer is ultimately within you.
People who stay around for over a year are rare, but arrangements can continue for several months.
After meeting a few times, things might change. You may start thinking, “Maybe we should try it this way next time,” or “Maybe we should try this position.”
When browsing profiles, I usually look for women with fairly high ratings who seem popular when they’ve just joined, then wait a while to see which ones are still active members.
I also target highly rated profiles that were registered earlier but have since been pushed further back in the listings.
Things usually fall apart after the first meeting because Fuu’s package is too big, making it painful or difficult. I’m the type who wants to go twice, so women who only want to go once might not get a second meeting.
It’s hard to tell those things from a profile, though.
My preference is someone who isn’t a professional in the adult entertainment world, but has plenty of erotic experience while still looking wholesome—haha. (Though once you’re that experienced, you’re hardly “wholesome” anymore.)
The women who stick around are usually pretty sexual—women who enjoy Fuu’s generously sized package, I guess.
I often have too many monthly arrangements, so the bigger problem is usually managing the rotation.
Finding someone you’re truly compatible with—or someone you can build a lasting relationship with—is difficult, isn’t it?
I recently turned 70, and I feel that maintaining an ongoing relationship becomes more difficult as you get older. The club’s data showing that older men receive more offers per person makes sense to me.
Recently, I met a woman through papa-katsu, and I have a feeling things may continue with her. I haven’t reached 20 women yet, but my matching rate is still fairly low.
The amusing thing this time is that, being an old guy, I ended up getting played by some Black- and Platinum-tier ladies（笑）.
I remember finding a match about eight years ago after meeting fewer than ten women.
As for offers, I always refer to the club’s introduction materials.
I’ll answer as someone who’s received around 200 offers through Universe Club.
It may be a boring answer, but in the end, it comes down to numbers.
You said you met an amazing woman once out of 25 meetings. My odds are almost exactly the same, and even a popular woman once told me:
“I’d say only about one in 20 papas is a good one.”
So if you want to meet good women, meeting another 25 should give you two monthly arrangements, and meeting 25 more should bring that number to three.
Last month, I miraculously added two more monthly partners. I’ve also had women graduate from their monthly arrangements.
Just keep accepting offers. That’s the only secret.
Picasso painted more than anyone else in the world. He painted more pictures than anyone, and some of them went on to become part of history.
Yasushi Akimoto says the same thing: “There’s no secret to creating a hit. If you don’t take enough shots, you won’t hit anything.”
Beyond that essential but boring point, I have a monthly partner I call my “ace.”
Aside from being cute, she didn’t really have any particular strengths, and we had absolutely no trust in each other. But once our relationship passed the four-year mark, we somehow became perfectly in sync.
There’s another woman who’s at least as special as my ace. We were mutually attracted from the moment we met, and I gave her a large sum of money on our third date.
I thought she might take the money and disappear, but she didn’t—she worked hard and paid it back. I gave her another large sum, thinking she might disappear this time, but she didn’t. When I lent her a substantial amount one more time, she paid that back in full too, and that’s where we are today.
We both instinctively felt that we were a good match, and we each took a major risk. We both won that gamble, and we’ve remained close ever since we met. At this point, you could even call us comrades in arms.
We’re no longer in an adult relationship (intimate), but I continue giving her the same monthly allowance as I did back then.
I may eventually part ways with my ace, but I don’t think I’ll ever part ways with this woman. I’m also thinking of increasing her monthly allowance even further.
