What’s the actual source of the infection when it happens occasionally? I assume the answers are 1 through 3, but if I had to choose, I’d say 3.
I see—so either way, you’re definitely going to fade out, huh? Unfortunately, it’s not about how you answer.
We’ve been seeing each other for a long time too, but neither of us has ever been told we passed anything on, and we’ve never had anything passed to us either (lol).
This time, draw lots for numbers ① through ③, and tell him whichever number you draw.
I’m looking forward to seeing how your papa reacts.
Don’t say anything unnecessary—just tell him what happened.
Instead of saying, “My boyfriend is a player,” it may be safest to keep it vague, like:
“Apparently, my boyfriend went to a brothel for work-related socializing.”
That’s actually the excuse I was given once, lol.
The genuinely lovesick types can be exhausting and might cause problems later, so this could be a good opportunity to create some distance.
You could also take a gamble and tell him you have other papas (male supporters).
I’m going to give you a serious scolding.
If you catch an STI, there are things you need to do rather than think about how to phrase it nicely, you filthy slut!
Sorry.
As a general rule, I believe you shouldn’t scheme or manipulate your way through situations like this. However, telling the truth to a papa who’s blinded by romance will only make things complicated. All three options, from 1 to 3, are out.
Personally, I think the best approach when he presses you is to stay silent and cry, but your papa will probably keep pushing. In that case, before you start crying, say you caught it from your ex. Make sure you emphasize that he’s an ex. If he doesn’t believe you, let the tears fall silently—both eyes, so practice. As for your story: “You hardly ever came to see me, so I felt lonely. I’m sorry.” After that, just burst into tears.
Also, contact everyone else you’ve slept with. Tell them the facts calmly—everyone except your papa. Don’t sleep with any of those people until they can prove they’ve gone to the hospital. Make sure you contact them, okay? Good girl.
P.S.
Looking more closely, you wrote that you “sometimes get STIs.” From now on, make them put one on whenever you open your legs.
