Tips Oct 9, 2025 15:37

Has anyone else had an experience like mine?

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This has happened three times now: I always get sick after meeting a certain person. It starts with a sore throat, followed by a fever of 38–39°C (100.4–102.2°F), headaches, and other symptoms. I wondered if it might be an STI, but it seems strange for a fever to develop after only two days… The only explanation I can think of is that my immune system may be weak, so germs that are harmless to the other person affect me badly. They’re a wonderful person, and I’d like to keep seeing them, but I feel absolutely awful every time! I take fever reducers and go to work, but it’s incredibly rough. Sorry this isn’t much of a question. I’d appreciate any comments.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Hmm… that’s a difficult one. Apparently, humans have around 380 trillion viruses inside and on their bodies, and about 90% of the body is made up of roughly 1,000 types of bacteria. So maybe your papa (a male supporter) has something that doesn’t agree with you. How do you feel about your papa’s scent, especially around his neck? Apparently, your sense of smell can sometimes tell you whether you’re compatible with someone. If his smell is unpleasant, you may not be compatible. If it’s fine or even comforting, apparently your body is responding positively.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
Hmm… I wonder what that’s about. I’ve never experienced it myself. I guess all sorts of things happening is just part of being in a dating club… I suppose.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
As Mac mentioned, I think you should see a doctor first. It would be best to start by getting checked for the flu, COVID, or any other underlying issue. If none of those apply, then perhaps get tested for STIs… When you think about kissing and things like that, I suppose it’s possible that you developed a fever because you had no immunity to some virus the other person was carrying. (The other person may already have immunity, which is why they feel perfectly fine.) As we learned during COVID, humans are vulnerable to unfamiliar viruses, so I wonder if symptoms like that can occur until the body develops immunity. Update: I searched online and found this: “Of course, viruses also live in the mouth. EBV, a member of the herpesvirus family, is present in the oral cavity and can enter and infect another person’s mouth through kissing. It can cause infectious mononucleosis. In Europe and the United States, it is commonly called the ‘kissing disease’ because it often affects young people who begin kissing during adolescence. If someone is infected with EBV mainly by their mother during infancy, the infection is usually asymptomatic. However, if they become infected after adolescence, they may develop a fever, sore throat, swollen lymph nodes in the neck, and other symptoms.” So the possibility of the “Epstein-Barr virus” shouldn’t be ruled out either. > After looking at Mac’s link and searching further, I found that it said, “We confirmed that sexual intercourse also has the same allergy-improving effect as kissing.” Sounds like some men are going to abuse that information…
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
Honestly, I think you should go to the hospital rather than ask here. For reference, try searching with AI for “semen allergy fever.” It’s only one possibility, and apparently women don’t usually develop a fever, though. There are all kinds of illnesses out there. You might also want to search for “condom allergy fever” or “fever after sex.” > Maezawa, > Considering that you might kiss and so on, I suppose it’s possible to develop a fever because you don’t have immunity to some virus the other person is carrying. https://news.tv-asahi.co.jp/news_international/articles/000059011.html
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Could it be some kind of allergic reaction? I’m sensitive to dust mites, so I feel unwell on windy days. You should probably just see a doctor and get checked to find out what’s causing it.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Buy a small bottle of Isodine and gargle as soon as possible. When you get home, take a bath right away to wash off any viruses on your body. I also recommend using Hananoa for nasal rinsing. In winter, sleep with a humidifier on. If possible, even just for that night, use mouth-closing tape while you sleep. Don’t skimp on heating or air conditioning. If you do all that, you probably won’t catch a cold.
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