To the gentleman who says he doesn’t understand what “Why don’t you go to a sex service?” means:

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The rule that “dating clubs involve free love, so they don’t get involved in adult relationships” gives ungentlemanly men the perfect excuse to do whatever they want—“Once I get her into a hotel, she’s mine.” There’s no rule requiring the allowance to be paid upfront for an adult relationship, and the man has the final say over the amount. Even if a woman realizes only after entering the hotel that he’s awful, she may have no choice but to reluctantly comply, fearing that upsetting him could mean not receiving her allowance or having it reduced. This isn’t about looking down on sex services. If anything, when it comes to adult relationships, I think they protect women better than dating clubs do. So “Why don’t you go to a sex service?” means: “A dating club isn’t a place for men who take advantage of the lack of rules regarding adult relationships and intend to do whatever they please. Go to a sex service with clear rules, and enjoy yourself while following them openly and properly.” Sorry this wasn’t a question.

Answer 1

I’m Saito, a column writer♪ Thank you for the wonderful comment. I find it encouraging to hear a woman express that kind of opinion. I also visit adult entertainment establishments. I get regular testing done, and it gives me peace of mind in many ways. (Though opinions on this are divided.) Whether I take a liking to someone or show favoritism among four or five women, no one minds, so it’s easygoing. Adult entertainment has clearly defined rules, whereas dating clubs have only etiquette. Both have their pros and cons, so I think the best approach is for each man to make the appropriate choice based on what he wants. Because dating clubs rely solely on etiquette, there’s a certain “flow” to them. I think they’re a great way to sharpen your understanding of people’s thinking and trends, which is why I continue to use them.

Answer 2

A male member for two and a half years, and still finding my way in my 60s. I think you’re absolutely right. Those are words that need to be said to men who see this as a form of adult entertainment with a few hurdles to clear—after which they can enjoy themselves entirely on their own terms. Looking through the Q&A, unfortunately, it seems there are male members who do need to hear those words.

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