Sorry for answering as a man.
I’m most interested in meeting someone who’s 18, like you, the person asking this question.
In fact, I’ve made an offer to an 18-year-old and we’ve become quite close. I’m genuinely happy when the women I’m seeing ask serious questions like yours.
“I wonder if even someone like me can be of any help…”
I take that question very seriously, set aside my own desires, and do my best to support her so that her life can become richer—while also being careful not to get too close.
As for when to register, I think now is perfectly fine. I’d recommend Type A, though. I’ll find you and make an offer myself lol.
> There are also people like Mr. Loser who care about appearance—especially the face—above all else.
That’s not quite right. It’s the face plus youth. In other words, I’m the worst kind of old man m(__)m
I’m currently seeing an 18-year-old PJ. She’s very innocent and genuine, not jaded at all. She’s so cute I can hardly stand it.
She didn’t have a boyfriend, so I’m helping her find one. Almost every day, I get information about several potential boyfriends and give her advice. She has no experience with men, let alone a boyfriend, so we’ve even talked about how, if things ever developed into an adult relationship (intimate), she should first get a boyfriend, be intimate with him, and only then take that next step.
My approach is slightly different from Mac’s, but if Mac is climbing Mt. Fuji from the Shizuoka side, I suppose I’m climbing it from the Yamanashi side.
■Meg
Please answer the person who posted the question m(__)m
■The Lost Man in His 60s
Please come back to Universe Club m(__)m
If veterans like Mac and The Lost Man in His 60s retire, it scares me because I’ll start to see the limits of my own age range too汗
The female respondents have stopped showing up lately, so I wouldn’t hold out much hope if you’re waiting for one. Sorry you have to make do with an answer from me.
If I were to imagine what the female respondents might say, I think there are two main perspectives: ① Don’t enter this kind of world while you’re still young. Enjoy dating and having fun with people your own age first. There’s no need to act older than you are or rush into anything. ② You’re more in demand when you’re young, so naturally, the earlier you start—even by a year—the more likely you are to enjoy the benefits. I wish I had started sooner too. It’s probably more ① than ②, but they also have a certain pride and may not want to admit their weaknesses. Even if ② is their true feeling, some may still insist on ①. There may also be a practical motive: they might not want too many young women entering the scene and threatening their own position as they get older.
From the male respondents’ perspective—especially mine—the real appeal is guiding an innocent teenage girl who knows nothing about the world. I tend to avoid “adult women” who have already had various experiences and become overly savvy. On the other hand, there are men like Kazu, who say, “I’m only interested in working adults with proper day jobs. College girls are immature as people, and there’s nothing interesting about talking to them.” Then there are men like Makeo, for whom appearance—especially the face—is everything.
So, as for the question, “Around what age are women in demand?”—there is demand at every age. People generally say women in their late twenties are most sought after, though.
The 19-year-old who stayed over last night had never bought her own underwear. She only owned the white cotton kind her mother bought for her—I don’t even know what they’re called, but they were junior-sized panties. Like the questioner, she had come from the countryside to live alone and was a first-year university student. I took her to a lingerie shop in PARCO, had her measured, and bought her some stylish underwear. That’s where we discovered she was a 65C.
She isn’t stupid. She’s simply inexperienced in many ways. Her male classmates confess their feelings to her, but she still doesn’t really understand romance. She loves watching The Bachelor on Amazon Prime, though. Emotionally, she just hasn’t matured yet, so she turns them down with an “I’m sorry” every time. She has no resistance to intimacy—in fact, she seems to enjoy it—and the other day, she experienced female ejaculation for the first time during intimacy. I suppose that was her true “first period.”
The reason she has no resistance to intimacy is probably that her sexual desire has already developed, making it easier for her to understand than romance. Romance can’t really be taught, but when the time comes, it will naturally blossom. There’s no need to rush. Just approach these things naturally.
That said, being taken around by people like us—so-called wealthy individuals and much older, more experienced people—and getting to see things that ordinary people their age never get to see is an experience that’s difficult to gain simply by waiting around. I like women like the questioner because they’re rewarding to guide. If fate brings us together, perhaps we’ll meet someday.
Since I have the opportunity, I’ll summarize what I’ve learned from the papa-katsu women around twenty I’ve met over the past few years and offer some advice.
① Don’t lie too much. The questioner is worried about developing a distorted sense of money, but what will affect the rest of your life more is becoming so accustomed to lying that it no longer bothers you. The reason you shouldn’t lie is that when you truly have no choice but to lie, people won’t believe you. Keep in mind that you only get three lies in life.
② Don’t force yourself to do things you dislike. If you numb your feelings because you want money, that emotional debt will eventually come back to haunt you. You could also phrase it as: don’t let your desire for money get out of control. With papa-katsu, limit yourself to earning only what you need. The exception is when you’re with a papa who doesn’t cause you stress.
Your mind can deteriorate before you even realize it. In that sense, papa-katsu is like a narcotic or stimulant. People like me who talk about the good side of papa-katsu are, so to speak, pushers. And there are plenty of those pushers online and on social media.
③ Don’t let yourself be influenced by women bragging about their papa-katsu experiences online or on social media. This is probably the most important point. The questioner says she wants to hear the opinions of female respondents, but that’s actually the biggest trap. People in the same position aren’t necessarily your true allies.
For example, do you think a thief who befriends other thieves in prison, exchanges information with them, and follows their advice is guaranteed a happy future? It’s fundamentally the same structure as trusting people you meet on an illegal-job message board and gradually being drawn into wrongdoing.
Advice from people with completely different values and perspectives may actually be more beneficial. Valuable truths are often hidden within negative opinions. You need the ability to recognize and take them in. This applies not only to papa-katsu but to life in general.
That’s about all for now. I’ll add more if I think of anything.
④ Alongside the desire for money, you also need to watch out for women in papa-katsu competing with one another out of vanity. Because they’re women, they want to be number one. One starts saying, “I make several hundred thousand yen a month in allowances,” and before long another is saying, “What are you talking about? I make several million.”
Even if you think you’ll never become like that, people are influenced by their surroundings, and bad money can drive out good. People are surprisingly weak. It’s important to know when you have enough. I understand wanting to test your limits and potential while you’re young, but papa-katsu is not where you should be spending that energy.
The more information you gather, the narrower your perspective can become. You’re young and full of potential, but that also means you’re inexperienced and vulnerable. Never lose your humility.
As for “things you should do while you’re a student”… That was a long time ago for me, and there are differences between men and women and between generations, so I’m not sure. Looking back, I don’t think any of it was meaningless. If I had to name one thing, it would be worrying. The time I spent wondering what I should do—that probably wasn’t necessary.
So if there’s something you want to try, don’t overthink it. Just give it a shot. Even if you fail, it will become a lesson that helps you somewhere later in life. The main thing to be careful about is not deceiving, undermining, or making someone else unhappy. Don’t cause trouble or make people sad. It may sound obvious, but that should be your most important guiding principle. Stand firm on that.
This may sound a bit like moral preaching, but it’s the most important thing.
Don’t misjudge who truly cares about you and has your best interests at heart. It could be your parents, siblings, boyfriend, or papa. You don’t have to obey them, but if you’re going to keep something secret, be prepared to keep it hidden at all costs. And never forget to be grateful.
Gratitude is the only prayer that can cleanse sin. Listen carefully to what people say, but ultimately do what you want. Offer a prayer of gratitude for everyone you meet. If you can do that, your life will become a fulfilling one.
