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I weigh 57 kg, which isn’t particularly heavy, but I’m only 153 cm tall, so I look overweight.

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Is appearance at a glance more important than actual weight? I’m asking because I don’t get many offers. My face is pretty average.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve answered this kind of question many times, but Fuu’s criteria for making an offer are: Height − 110 = within ±5 kg At 153 cm, the questioner’s upper limit would be 48 kg. Ideally, I’d want her to be around 43 kg. Honestly, you’re probably in the overweight range. If you’re overweight but say you’re not heavy, that suggests your self-analysis and self-assessment are too generous, so I have a feeling even having an average-looking face may not be enough. That may sound harsh, but you have no choice but to calmly assess yourself, figure out where you can compete, and identify your strengths. It’s also possible that this simply isn’t the right place for you, and that you might have better experiences doing papa-katsu through dating sites or X. Unless you take a realistic, clear-eyed look at yourself, I don’t think you’ll ever receive an offer.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’d offer 50,000 yen per meeting. Even someone around 63 kg would be fine with me. As for the person Makeotoko recommended—yeah, I wouldn’t want him even for 30,000 yen per meeting. Aren’t skinny guys kind of stiff?
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I do care about looks, but… That said, I feel like it gets a little difficult if your height in centimeters minus your weight in kilograms is under 100. I’m a guy, and my height-minus-weight figure is around 110.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
At 57 kg, it’s pretty tough unless you’re around 170 cm tall, right? This new black-tier girl asking for ¥150,000 per meeting had an incredible body. *It had been about a year since I’d met a woman asking for ¥150,000 per meeting.* She was around 160 cm and weighed about 42–43 kg. From a man’s perspective, she looked like an E cup, but she said, “I’m an F.” She had slim legs and, of course, a well-defined waist. With that figure, Seattle-san probably wouldn’t even have made an offer at ¥30,000 per meeting, but I like this kind of build, and she squirted a lot, so I had a great time. She clearly took good care of her body, and I thought she’d definitely have demand even asking for ¥150,000 per meeting. I only ejaculated once. I can’t be Mr. Mac, unfortunately.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
> While 57 kg isn’t particularly heavy in itself, It’s not good to judge someone by weight alone, but even so, 57 kg gives the impression of being heavy unless you’re quite tall. > Is how I look at a glance more important than my actual weight? Based on your height and weight, your BMI is 24.35. Compared with the standard BMI of 22, that is on the heavier side, so I think it means your actual weight is also relatively high—in other words, that you’re overweight. > I asked because I’m not getting many offers. If you’re receiving even a few offers, I think you should value those opportunities. There are many factors involved in getting offers, so there’s no single guaranteed way to increase them, but— For now, it might be worth aiming for a BMI of around 22. That said, the man who has offered to meet you may actually prefer women who are slightly curvy, so I’m not sure whether you should lose weight. Still, since your question was about weight, I think it would be fine to aim for the standard weight. With a BMI of 22 and a height of 153 cm, your weight would be 51.5 kg.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I look at the numbers before the photos. Based on those numbers, I probably wouldn’t make an offer in my case. The 19-year-old sleeping naked beside me right now is about 163 cm and 39 kg, if I remember correctly. She’s a 65C. She’s slim, but has soft fat only around her breasts and pubic mound—very prominent. The way she feels vaginally is incredible. I ejaculated twice last night and once more just now while we were lying down. I mean ejaculated, not penetrated. I can’t do that with other girls. She’s truly exceptional. I’ll probably get another hour of sleep and ejaculate once more in the morning. I’m even starting to think maybe I only need this one girl. I’m completely hooked. Personally, I think some men like me look at the numbers first and never get as far as the face or full-body photos. So I feel it might be reasonable to have an option where women can choose not to disclose their weight.
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