When deciding whether to make an offer to a female member, do you take into account how many recent offers she has received?
If so, is there a certain number that makes you hold off, thinking you’ll wait until things calm down a little before making an offer?
Of course, I assume you make an overall judgment based on her profile, feedback, and other information, but I’d like to know how you view the number of offers she has received and what criteria you use.
Thank you.
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I can’t know how many offers they’ve received, so I personally pay close attention to the number of stars.
If someone has a lot of stars, I take it as a sign that, at the very least, other papas (male supporters) were satisfied. I usually search by star rating, check their profiles, and go from there.
If they have very few stars, I assume there may be some kind of issue and refrain from making an offer.
I tend to avoid women who seem to be getting a lot of offers right after joining. Instead, I often choose women who have been registered for a little while and have received some stars, or women I like whose ranking has slipped slightly after being registered for quite some time.
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Glad to hear the artist is doing well. That’s good, that’s good.
Unlike everyone else, I’ve mainly gone after women who seemed unlikely to get many offers and who I might be able to have all to myself.
I prefer women around 75 kg, so I may actually be managing to keep them exclusive. You should all try going for one-star or otherwise rare women too.
You don’t really hear about men with binge-eating and purging issues. I wonder if it’s a condition unique to women.
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① A woman who’s exactly my type and gets a lot of offers
② A woman who’s somewhat my type but gets fewer offers
If you knew the number of offers beforehand, would anyone actually choose option ②?
I’ve never had one of those “I set up a date with a woman who probably doesn’t get many offers and hit the jackpot—woohoo!” experiences.
Edit: I remember the artist girl really well. Has it already been two years? It’s amazing that things are still going. For a moment, I thought about asking her to make a reverse offer, especially after seeing her photo. But no matter how I looked at it, I felt Mac-san would probably be happier with her, and I remember adding something to that effect in my answer.
Amazing…
Speaking of helping someone grow, we’ve both been nurtured by Ace and have grown together along the way. It feels like we’re at the stage where things are maturing.
That said, we both understand that this is as far as we can go. We mustn’t become any closer than this.
I’m incredibly excited about meeting the woman next week. Please let my intuition be right for once—though it’s usually wrong.
Edit 2: She’s definitely not the stunning beauty who’s exactly my type. But there was something strangely alluring about the way she looked in those glasses, and I thought she seemed lovely. She must be happy, being cared for so much by him.
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I’m not sure how other men perceive it has anything to do with how the questioner sees it. Is this just another survey of the usual respondents’ tendencies?
That said, this question does sound like something a woman might be curious about, especially if a woman is pretending to be a man while writing it.
Answering from a staff member’s perspective:
Some men make offers with conditions attached, such as, “I’ll make an offer if I’m the first, but cancel it if I’m second or later.”
So there are men who really don’t like not being the first.
(But they’re in the minority.)
There are also a fair number of men who won’t make an offer if a woman has received too many offers. I feel like around five might be the cutoff—some may offer if she has five or fewer, but not if she has more than that.
However, more than half of men don’t care how many offers she has received, so I think it’s best not to worry about it.
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In my case, I don’t really care how many star ratings someone has. If the number is extremely low, I might check whether they’ve had same-day cancellations, but that’s about it.
The people I’ve continued seeing have all been completely different in terms of the number of offers they’ve received, so in the end, that isn’t really something I compare.
What matters more is whether I’m drawn to them based on their photos, videos, and profile, which is what leads me to consider making an offer.
With Pato, I sometimes also judge based on whether their messages are thoughtful rather than careless. Hope that helps.
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From my personal experience, even women who receive a lot of offers will continue seeing someone if they click, so I don’t pay any attention to how many offers a woman has received. I consider the number of offers nothing more than small talk.
I make offers whenever I feel like it, because the woman might leave the site once the offers start to slow down.
I read profiles carefully, but I don’t pay attention to feedback. She may have been cold because the man was simply unpleasant, so I don’t think feedback about how things went from another man’s perspective is very useful.
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