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Jun 22, 2025 12:07
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Does the monthly rate also vary depending on the woman’s class? I’m Gold. I’d appreciate an idea of the going rate.
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Men who are looking for a monthly arrangement usually bring it up from the very first meeting. So I don’t think you need to try too hard. After that, it’s all about working on yourself. :( ;´꒳`; )
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Getting ¥300,000 from just one person is a pretty high hurdle. It would take almost miraculous luck.
It’s probably more realistic to earn through numbers. ¥50,000 × 6 people or ¥30,000 × 10 people seems relatively achievable.
That is, if you get the offers.
If you register with and actively use clubs, Patro, and lounges, then wait for offers, it seems doable.
Good luck!
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> How many times do I have to meet him and have an adult relationship (intimate) before I can receive that?
I don’t think the number of meetings has any connection to entering a monthly arrangement.
If he likes you and prefers that kind of arrangement, he may bring it up, but I feel that more often than not, it doesn’t work out that way.
If you’re not set on a monthly arrangement, there are women who receive around ¥2 million a month. But when I heard one of them talk about it, she said that she didn’t have the looks to earn a lot from each person, so she made money through volume.
It made me realize that, in any world, there are all kinds of approaches—or ways of playing the game.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
There isn’t really any established market rate for allowances, so there’s no fixed standard.
Around ¥300,000 a month sounds like a realistic amount that I hear fairly often. With a monthly arrangement, though, people seem to become less particular about the number of intimate encounters.
I don’t think the allowance has much to do with a woman’s “class.” There may have been male respondents in the past who adjusted the amount based on a woman’s class, but they would be in the minority.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
With a Gold membership, ¥50,000 per meeting is probably the limit, so if you want to earn ¥500,000 a month, you’d need 10 adult dates.