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Apr 5, 2025 18:31
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When I used it before, there were many gentlemanly men, but after reading posts and reviews on this forum, I’m wondering if things have changed…
I’d appreciate any feedback!
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve been a member for five years, and honestly, the questions haven’t changed much.
It hasn’t gotten better or worse. At the end of the day, it’s still papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
You probably just happened to receive an offer from a papa (a male supporter) you considered a gentleman during your earlier time doing it.
Since Japan’s economy as a whole is declining, the number of wealthy papas may gradually decrease over the long term.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If most of the men were gentlemen before, I don’t think that will change much going forward. I think the same applies both within and outside the club.
The difference from before is probably that now everything gets displayed—including pranks and repeated posts from the same person—whereas previously, only posts that had been reviewed were shown.
That said, I do wonder how much need there is for genuinely gentlemanly men—those looking for an ongoing relationship—to make offers to women who are re-registering. It seems fairly limited. Of course, it depends on the woman… Some people receive a flood of offers on the very first day they register.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
People often talk about safety, but when it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think a lot depends on the individual.
Personally, I’ve never really encountered that many bad people, even in places said to be unsafe. And from what I hear from women, those who frequently meet problematic men often seem to have something about them that attracts those kinds of situations.
So in the end, I don’t think the area’s reputation for safety matters all that much. Perhaps the people you meet are simply a reflection of yourself.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I feel the proportion of men who aren’t gentlemanly is about the same as it has always been.
About half of the men are gentlemanly, while the other half tend to cause various problems. However, that’s a matter of personality, so for women who are capable of handling even those kinds of men, it may not be a big issue.
> Looking at this site and
This isn’t a message board, though. Are you perhaps the person who keeps posting here persistently as if it were one?
> Looking at things like word-of-mouth reviews
I don’t know where those reviews were posted, but a gentleman is always a gentleman, and someone who isn’t will remain that way no matter how many times they’re warned.
I assume the people writing those reviews are women, but there aren’t many women who stay active for that long. And even if someone has been registered for a long time, once a man has made an offer to her, he generally won’t make a second offer, so I think it would be difficult to make a fair comparison.