What would be a reasonable allowance? Could you tell me the going rates for Platinum and Gold women?

Patro lists the amounts women are looking for, so it may help as a reference. Some women are fine with a lower allowance if the man is young or a handsome older guy. Others have a set minimum amount. You’ll get a better sense of it once you start making offers, so at first, think of it as tuition and try making plenty of offers.

An allowance of 100 yen? I’ve never even considered that, but the difficulty level would be maxed out… It would be far easier to just hand over a million yen. I’ve chosen what seems like the most difficult but is actually the easiest approach: paying the same allowance for an adult relationship (intimate) as for dinner, and continuing to pay the allowance even if we don’t meet for six months. I thought it would be difficult, but after Mac pointed it out, I realized I’m actually taking the easiest route. The training never ends…

Since Mack’s formula is interesting, I thought I’d add my own take: For both men and women, the allowance is determined by the man’s age, with an adjustment based on the woman’s class. ① If the woman is Standard or Gold: The man’s age ÷ 10 (If the man is 50, the allowance would be 5.) ③ If the woman is Gold or Platinum: (The man’s age ÷ 10) × 2 (If the man is 50, the allowance would be 10.) ④ If the woman is Platinum or Black: (The man’s age ÷ 10) × 3 (If the man is 50, the allowance would be 15.) I feel that setting things around this level increases the chances of not putting women off. The reason the woman’s age isn’t taken into account is that I feel more women tend to prioritize the experience over the allowance as they get older. So if you’re definitely a woman, I think your only option is to tell the other person how much you want. Even if you worry about what everyone else is doing, more and more people are saying that any amount is fine and that the experience itself is what matters. Because of that, it’s difficult to discuss someone like you—who considers the allowance important—in the same category as them.

Speaking as a man, if it’s really bothering you, why not compile your own data on the allowances requested by people on PATOLO and make your decision based on that? Alternatively, you can message them directly and ask what they’re looking for.

Do you care more about the going rate or your compatibility? For both men and women, the allowance is the biggest concern. Some people focus on the allowance first, while others prioritize the relationship itself. If you can connect on a personal level and feel good about each other before discussing the allowance, it’s probably easier for things to develop into a natural relationship or dating arrangement. But if both sides are primarily focused on getting an adult relationship and an allowance, that’s less likely to happen. That said, more people seem to prefer a transactional relationship—or want the other person to see it that way—so maybe this is just an idealistic view...