Do women keep putting on an act when they meet men so they won’t be disliked?
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Are men all just being deceived?
Reading this forum, I’m starting to think that most women at these clubs are actually calculating, dishonest, or just unpleasant by nature.
(Like women who misrepresent their type, women who are always asking for more, women who try to cut meetings short, or women who have to endure feeling sick, etc.)
The woman I’m currently seeing is very kind, and has almost none of the qualities mentioned above. But I’m starting to wonder whether she’s simply acting for the money, or whether that’s really who she is. I honestly can’t tell anymore.
I’m not looking for some overly mature answer like “all women are actresses” or “being deceived is part of the experience.”
Have you ever met a woman who genuinely seemed like a good person, rather than someone who was just acting?
Conversely, have you ever thought a woman was kind, only to later discover that it had all been an act?
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I’m not discerning enough to tell whether someone’s feelings are genuine or just an act, so my stance is: “As long as I don’t notice, I don’t really care whether it’s acting or sincere.”
If I’m able to enjoy that time, that’s more than enough for me.
I’m taking up a young woman’s limited time with money, so I don’t expect anything more than that. And if she were to develop genuine feelings for me, that would put me in a difficult position.
As long as we can enjoy our time together, that’s all I need.
Whether I eventually get bored, like with Disney, is another matter entirely.
Nothing in this world is provided completely free of charge.
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Maezawa here, answering your question as well.
During interviews, I sometimes listen to a woman and respond with things like, “That’s amazing,” “Really?” or “Wow,” only to have a female staff member watching from behind me say, “There’s no way that’s all true. You’re the type who gets fooled, aren’t you, Maezawa?”
Even so, I haven’t really had many experiences of being deceived by women. Maybe I simply trust people so much that I wouldn’t notice even if I were being deceived.
Speaking as someone like that, I don’t think you need to worry about whether:
“Is she only acting for the money? Or is this how she really feels? I’m starting to lose track.”
If you can’t tell, then it’s genuine, not an act. (笑) Thinking about it is just a waste of time.
The way you’ve felt about her until now is genuine, and your impression of her is correct.
I hope you continue to have a good relationship.
There’s nothing to be gained by prying into things you can’t know for sure.
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I’m a male member who’s been with the club for two and a half years—a lost soul in my 60s.
The woman who left the strongest impression on me was in her 20s. Due to personal circumstances, I wanted a time-limited relationship with her. On our second date, as a Type B arrangement, we were sitting on the sofa in a hotel room when I explained that we couldn’t continue seeing each other at all after the agreed period, and that I couldn’t touch her unless she accepted that.
She suddenly burst into tears and cried for so long that she used up an entire box of tissues. Once she finally calmed down, we spent the night together, but…
After that, we started seeing each other every weekend and even took trips together, but she never accepted any allowance from me—not once.
Meeting someone like her on my very first offer made it impossible for me to leave the club… lol
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