Having spent my youth without much romantic attention, I’d never had sex with a virgin before.
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Thanks to Universe, I was able to have a valuable experience with one woman. She was in quite a bit of pain the first time, but she got a little more used to it the second time, and reached orgasm from clitoral stimulation on the third.
Even so, penetration still causes her some pain. She says she wants to be able to enjoy herself, feels scared of men her own age, and wants me to help her explore her sexuality.
I’m doing my best to help her along, but it’s not easy.
If anyone here is good at this, I’d appreciate some tips. Are there any toys or situations you’d recommend?
Of course, I understand that it takes time, but with our fourth time approaching, I honestly find myself thinking, “This is such a pain!”
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Wouldn’t it be difficult to develop things right away?
I think you’d need some experience first, too.
I’m not a virgin, either, but I only recently had my virginity taken by another papa. He liked it when I was in pain, applied plenty of lubricant every time, and since it didn’t feel that good, I ended things with him. So I do have some experience.
Unless the papa has a preference for women who are in pain or inexperienced, I think it would be difficult.
Personally, I want to really enjoy myself, have my partner seem like he’s enjoying it too, and finish heavily—twice. So unfortunately, women with little experience or who are in pain would be a reason for me to end things.
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> Do you have any recommended toys or situations?
Toys… really?
If that’s the kind of relationship you want, would you really be satisfied even if she brought a TENGA?
It seems like you’re completely missing the point.
> As our fourth time having sex approaches, I honestly find myself thinking, “What a pain.”
Hearing that, I can’t help wondering if that woman simply wasn’t very good at judging men.
You’re not a virgin anymore, so why not treat her kindly and see how things go?
A little too late, I suppose. He got away with it.
No, he didn’t take anything from me. He fought for me.
No, he stole something far more valuable.
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Your heart.
…Yes!
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If that’s how you feel, then it’s probably best to move on to the next woman.
Your feelings won’t come across to someone you’re not genuinely invested in. And if there’s nothing to convey, there’s no future for the relationship.
Neither of you should feel that just anyone will do. It may not be about love simply because you met through a club, but through the allowance and your dates, it’s important to feel that you truly need and value each other. Without those feelings, things become purely obligatory, and for the woman, the time may start to feel like something she simply has to endure.
Rather than judging or evaluating the woman, I don’t think things can progress unless you’re genuinely interested in your own feelings, your emotions toward her, and how she responds to them.
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