Monthly arrangement: ¥450,000, meeting 10–13 times a month, about seven hours per meeting. Meals included. He’s quite possessive.
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NS and NN are the norm.
I’m in my late 30s, with an average figure and average looks—nothing particularly exceptional. I’m on the pill.
Actually, my papa and I had been together under these terms for about five years, but we broke things off a little while ago. The reason was either that he found another woman or that he asked to reduce the monthly allowance to ¥300,000. On top of that, he wanted me to agree not to have any other papas. So I was the one who said we should end things.
After some time passed, my papa contacted me and said he wanted to start over after all, under the same terms as before. I’m grateful for the original ¥450,000 monthly allowance, but I’m unsure whether I should get back together with him.
What are you doing for seven hours?
Having sex?
If you divide 450,000 yen by 13, that comes to 36,000 yen per pay-per-meeting arrangement, with seven hours of your time tied up.
It’s amazing you managed to put up with that for five years.
Though it sounds like it might take a toll on your mental health...
If you’re not going to break down, you’re making more than the average salary of a company employee, so if you need the money, I think you should keep going.
Still, you must have incredible mental strength.
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Ultimately, I believe that’s something you need to think through and decide for yourself.
That said, I imagine you’re not only looking for answers here, but also hoping to hear the opinions and perspectives of other members. It seems that people of all genders take part in this activity while feeling uncertain and conflicted.
With that in mind, I’d like to point out two things that stood out to me in your question and offer them as my answer.
1. In short, you’ve decided not to end things after all, right? In my modest experience, this activity in particular rarely leads to a rosy future. Similar breakup discussions will probably come up repeatedly in the future. I recommend taking that into consideration before making your decision.
2. I’m a reasonably free older guy myself, but my first thought was, “How on earth are you two both free enough to meet more than ten days a month?” That concerned me more than the money. You may disagree, but it seems to me that the two of you are dependent on each other more in terms of time than financially. At least, I wouldn’t call it an enviable relationship.
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You’re not some underage girl—you’re capable of deciding for yourself what to do. That’s what being an adult means, in my opinion.
I suppose you just wanted to write it here, but it’s hard to respond to an unverified scribble that isn’t even a question.
By the way, I believe NS means “no skin” and NN means ejaculating inside. If it’s NN, then it would be NS as well. Taking off the condom when ejaculation is imminent and finishing inside would be an extremely rare case.
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