Men put a lot of time, effort, and money into meeting someone, so the shock and anger must be that much greater when things don’t work out, right?

At another club, they gave me the man’s contact information as soon as I received an offer. We had a video call before meeting, and I realized we weren’t compatible, so I declined. It was better for both of us because we avoided wasting time and money on a first meeting. Would Universe consider introducing this system as well? For example, the man would pay part of the setup fee, and both parties could speak before the first meeting using dedicated contact details, without sharing their personal information. If the terms and chemistry matched, they would proceed to a first meeting and he would pay the remaining setup fee. If they didn’t match, there would be no need to pay the balance. Even if she declines without meeting him, the woman would still receive a small token of appreciation. If she received nothing at all, some women might lie and try to make themselves look better in the moment just because they want him to meet them. What do you think? If both sides could learn about their compatibility and terms beforehand, I think it would reduce complaints like, “I made time despite being busy, paid the setup fee, and treated her to an expensive meal, but things still didn’t work out!”