I see. That sounds really tough.
Try imagining what you’ll spend the allowance on,
planning a little reward for yourself afterward,
going out for drinks with friends once it’s over,
blowing off steam at karaoke,
eating some chocolate (maybe chocolate with GABA?),
having a Red Bull or Monster,
taking a long, relaxing bath,
smelling your favorite scent,
listening to music you like,
or binge-watching videos of your favorite celebrity.
Don’t push yourself too hard.
I hope you can find even a little enjoyment in it...
Personally, I never dread meeting them.
I want to be a papa...
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It seems like many women start feeling depressed as the agreed-upon date approaches. I’ve heard similar things from all kinds of women, so I can somewhat understand how they feel.
That’s why I tell every woman that canceling at the last minute on the day is totally okay. I don’t usually bring it up with women in a monthly arrangement—they’ll sometimes message me directly to say, “Sorry,” but I never get angry about it.
With women I’m not very close to yet, I say something like, “Canceling at the last minute is completely fine. If possible, I’d appreciate it if you could let me know at least two hours beforehand.”
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I’ve been feeling a little depressed, and recently I ended things with two long-term partners because I just couldn’t bring myself to see them anymore.
If it’s more like simply not wanting to go to work or school, I’ve been focusing on self-care lately—improving my gut health, eating less so my body uses less energy for digestion, and getting plenty of sleep.
I might also take some supplements to help boost my motivation.
As for the two people I mentioned earlier, I just completely lost the desire to see them, no matter what… Even though once we actually met, we’d have a great time.
That happens sometimes. I really get it.
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Exactly…
A beautiful woman I met through the club said she always pretended to be asleep, so people would always tell her, “You sure sleep a lot!” (and they’d still grow fond of her).
If you assume she’s going to pretend to sleep, you can relax too, knowing you’ll have time to rest…
Once you get closer, maybe there’s no need to make plans in advance.
You could just meet whenever you feel like seeing each other that day…
From the man’s side, it’s fine even if you only decide a few hours—or 30 minutes—in advance, since there’s nothing to prepare (as long as he’s free).
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