I run my own company, and I also have side hustles involving stocks, cryptocurrency, real estate, and so on.
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(I’m not making any huge profits or anything, but I’m working hard at it.)
When I mentioned that to my papa (a male supporter), he seemed a little put off—or rather, he indirectly said, “Then you probably don’t need an allowance, right? haha”
I want to work hard at my own business while also continuing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). If anything, since he’s an experienced business owner, I thought he might be able to teach me a lot.
Is it better not to tell a papa things that make me sound like an independent, capable woman...?
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Like anything else, I think you need to figure out whether it’s a topic the other person is actually interested in.
There are all kinds of business owners, and I tend to avoid the Instagram-famous, glamorous-girl type because they seem like they’d be expensive.
People judge others through their own preconceptions, so just saying you run a business may make them see you that way.
If you really want to talk about your business, I’d suggest feeling them out and bringing it up little by little.
I once dated a woman who was a livestreamer and self-employed, and who also dealt in stocks, cryptocurrency, and land—but we broke up pretty quickly, haha.
For Fuu, it sounds like company employees, nurses, women working at esthetic salons, and students are the best fit, haha.
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> When you bring that up with your papa (a male supporter), he may feel a little put off.
If you bring it up yourself, it might come across as bragging. I think it would be fine as long as you just answer naturally if he asks, so it doesn’t give that impression.
Of course, you could also simply choose not to mention it.
That said, this question does feel a little forced—almost like someone thinking out loud.
I don’t think there’s any need to ask about things that aren’t what you genuinely want to know.
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Everyone has different tastes and preferences. You can’t lump all papas together.
I’m looking to date an independent woman, but a truly independent woman probably wouldn’t go around saying she’s independent.
Sorry, but people in an adult relationship don’t advertise themselves as such. Anyone who says that comes across as ridiculous.
You don’t have to force yourself to ask questions.
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