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People really do end up with those who are similar to them, don’t they?

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Men and women who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) are disliked by society, no matter how attractive or wealthy they are. I recently started a daytime part-time job, but the other women there really seem to dislike me. Maybe I’m giving off some kind of negative energy. I don’t understand why. Is anyone else in a similar situation?
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I’m also the type women tend to dislike intensely. It’s not like I’m trying to act cutesy or anything, so I just think, “Ah, I guess she hasn’t had much life experience—or hasn’t really been through the pressures of society.” Let’s keep fighting together! Even if a certain number of women dislike you, the people who are watching will recognize your worth.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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It’s true that, from mainstream society’s perspective, people who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) may seem eccentric or abnormal. But I don’t think that necessarily means they’re disliked. In particular, the women who become popular are often very sociable and extremely well-liked. If we go with the idea that like attracts like, perhaps you and your papa (a male supporter) just happen to be similar in that way. I think people involved in papa-katsu are generally good with others, so if anything, they seem much less likely to be disliked. Maybe it’s because I’m the complete opposite of an aggressive, dominant type—I’m the kind of person who wants the other person to do whatever they want to do…
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Words can shape and limit your actions, so you’re probably giving off a very negative vibe. That’s likely because you’ve already made up your mind about yourself. If you’re convinced that things are a certain way, nothing will change. People don’t dislike you because of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan); they dislike you because there’s a problem with your attitude. People who shift the blame onto others tend to be disliked by many. After all, you’re not going around your part-time job saying, “I’m doing papa-katsu,” right? You’re being disliked at work for other reasons. Papa-katsu has nothing to do with it, I’m sure lol. It completely depends on the person. Of course, there are people who enjoy papa-katsu and are popular while doing it. If people disliked you, running a business or managing a company would become much more difficult, so I imagine many people aren’t disliked—or are even well-liked—at least on the surface. Ah, but birds of a feather flock together, so maybe the people around you are similar to you.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve spent my whole life being envied by other women. Even now. Women who get obsessed with you are seriously creepy, aren’t they? If they have that much time to fixate on other people, they should work on themselves instead. I feel like telling them, “You’re unpopular because you’re too busy worrying about everyone else.” To be more specific, I’m disliked by almost all the female respondents here, but I honestly don’t care at all. In the real world, lots of young, cute girls adore me, so that’s good enough for me. As long as I’m loved by my family, the women I’ve met through Universe Club, and my longtime friends, I’m perfectly fine. Doesn’t it get exhausting trying so hard to be liked by everyone?
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