I was offered ¥200,000 a month to meet three or four times for an adult relationship (intimate).
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He said he’d put it down as a business expense through the company he runs and pay me everything at the end of the month.
Is there a high chance he’ll just disappear without paying? Getting ¥200,000 a month sounds good, but I’m uneasy about being paid all at once at the end of the month.
When a papa says the payment will be covered as a business expense, he may ask for your personal information, claiming he needs to register you as an employee.
That’s actually where the trap is. In the end, you may not receive any money and could be threatened using your personal information.
So if the allowance is ¥200,000 a month, it’s risky unless you receive it upfront. Of course, men can also pay upfront and then suddenly disappear, so—
Until you’ve built mutual trust, I think a pay-per-meeting arrangement is safer. That said, if you can get paid upfront, there’s nothing wrong with that either.
By the way, I occasionally get consultations from women saying that a man who promised to pay through his company’s expenses never gave them any money.
Please be careful not to be fooled by sweet talk.
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I sometimes continue under similar terms, but for the first three or four meetings, I pay per meeting. If things continue after that, I’ll pay two months’ worth upfront.
In this case, though, something feels suspicious—unless you’ve gotten the other person’s business card or something.
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The fact that this papa (a male supporter) is suggesting a postpaid monthly arrangement without even having had an adult relationship (intimate) with you once strongly suggests he’s planning to hook up and disappear.
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