About a Man Who Keeps Messaging Me but Won’t Meet Up

Question

There’s a man I meet about once every three months. He sometimes sends me photos or videos saying things like, “I’m traveling right now.” I reply enthusiastically and ask when we can meet next, but he just brushes me off with, “I’ll get back to you,” so we never actually meet, and I end up feeling lonely. Even so, he continues messaging me on LINE afterward, which leaves me unsure whether I should reply. Why does he keep sending me so many messages when he doesn’t seem interested in meeting me?

Answer 1

Hide them and keep leaving their messages on read. Won’t they eventually stop messaging you? It’s such a hassle, and if they’re not going to meet you anyway, I don’t think you need to force yourself to reply.

Answer 2

If it’s true that he has no intention of meeting, then I think his reason is simply that he wants someone to chat with on LINE. In other words, you’re basically his volunteer LINE friend. It doesn’t cost him anything, he gets replies, and maybe he enjoys that. On the other hand, I find myself wondering why you haven’t blocked him, even though you know you’re never going to meet.

Answer 3

Just like with your question, they’re probably only killing time or trolling.

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