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Nov 22, 2024 13:54
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It made me really sad, especially because this happened with a man I had been seeing for about six months, after our fifth or sixth date.
From our second date onward, he often talked at length about other girls, and I increasingly heard stories about girls he had supported in the past. I frequently felt down, wondering if he had lost interest in me.
I also knew that he was very close with one of the club staff members through LINE and often vented to her. In the past, he even showed me their LINE messages and said, “It’s not written in your profile, but the club staff said you’re a good girl, though kind of calculating, haha.”
There are other kind men I’m seeing, so I intend to continue treating them sincerely. But is there anything I can do to prevent being blocked or stood up at the last minute like this in the future?
4 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
That’s their problem, so there’s really nothing you can do.
Just be glad you were able to part ways with someone who would cancel at the last minute, and wait for the next offer.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Wouldn’t it be better off without a papa (a male supporter) who has such little consideration?
横断歩道
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
You said they canceled at the last minute and blocked you on the day of the meeting, but since you don’t know the real reason—maybe someone found out and they couldn’t contact you—there’s nothing you can do about it. Treat it as an unfortunate incident and move on.
No matter how hard you try, things like this can happen due to the other person’s circumstances, so don’t worry about how to deal with it.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
After reading this post, I also got the impression that I might come across as a bit calculating.
There’s no point dwelling on just one incident. I don’t think there’s any way to eliminate mismatches that don’t work out.