Tips Nov 14, 2024 14:49

I met a man through an app.

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He was always the one who invited me to meet, and we saw each other twice a month for six months, with an allowance of 50,000 yen per meeting. But after we last met in August, he suddenly stopped asking me out. September and October passed without any contact. Since he’s married, I didn’t reach out to him either. He hadn’t blocked me on LINE, so I assumed he might have found another nice girl. Then the other day, he apparently found me on a different app from the one where we met and messaged me: “Long time no see. This is [name]. I deleted LINE due to personal circumstances, so could you send me your LINE ID if you don’t mind?” I sent him my LINE ID through the app, and all he replied on LINE was, “Thank you.” I’d like to ask everyone: when someone says they “deleted LINE due to personal circumstances,” does that mean they deleted it themselves? If they said LINE “disappeared,” I’d assume their phone broke, their data was lost, and they were unable to contact me. But what kinds of situations would lead someone to say they deleted it due to personal circumstances? Also, I thought he might explain on LINE what happened and why he hadn’t contacted me, but all he said was “Thank you,” which felt rather cold. Is that just how it is?
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
How should I know? Everyone has their own circumstances. If it’s bothering you, just ask him directly. And if you don’t want to see him again, you can simply let things fade out naturally. Maybe he dropped his phone in the toilet. Or maybe his wife found out, things blew up, and she made him cancel his phone plan, lol. Maybe it’s for the best that you didn’t get dragged into it, haha.
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
The reason he deleted it… his wife or another woman found out and made him delete it. The reason he won’t explain why he deleted it… the real reason is embarrassing, and he doesn’t want to tell the truth.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
If he’s married, he may have done the following to prevent his wife from finding out: ① Deleted the LINE chat ② Hidden you from his friends list ③ Removed you from LINE’s hidden friends list in the settings Since you no longer appear anywhere on the man’s phone, you can’t contact him—but because he hasn’t blocked you, if you send him a message, you’ll show up again. Or maybe it wasn’t about his wife at all. He may have tidied things up because ① he simply got bored, ② he found someone else he liked better, or ③ he ran out of money, and now that circumstances have changed, he may want to see you again. Those are about the only possibilities I can think of. Are there any others? > Do you think he’ll message me on LINE explaining what happened and why he didn’t contact me? If he hasn’t told you, it means he doesn’t want to talk about it, so you shouldn’t ask. It’s a matter of adult discretion. By the way, this is your sixth question here. You seem to be a female member in her 20s at Universe. Reading your questions, I’m starting to feel like even the people inside Disney’s mascot costumes must have it like this. I mean, you really work hard. --- This is about the two papas I’m currently seeing. One of them took me to a love hotel, and when he found a ¥1,000 discount coupon on the table, he called the front desk... 2024/09/12 13:53 Female No answer No answer When men pay to have sex, the things they want include licking your anus, licking your toes, filming themselves during sex, using toys... 2024/09/07 23:04 Female No answer Universe female member Sorry for asking so many questions. Since there seem to be more male respondents on this site, I wanted to ask. About the women I’m currently seeing... 2024/09/07 15:00 Female No answer No answer I have a papa I meet for ¥50,000 for an adult relationship (intimate). He asked if I’d stay overnight. He didn’t mention the allowance for staying over... 2024/09/04 12:30 Female No answer No answer When meeting a man with the expectation of having sex, you don’t know what he’ll be like—whether he has bad breath, dirty teeth, and so on—so is it okay to skip kissing the first time... 2024/09/01 22:46 Female 20s No answer I recently met a man who had sent me an offer. That day, he asked me to date him, and we started seeing each other on a pay-per-meeting arrangement of ¥60,000... 2024/08/31 19:40 Female 20s No answer
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m wondering: are there really adults out there who can’t think of possibilities such as, “Maybe he’s married and deleted it so his spouse wouldn’t find out,” or, “Maybe he accidentally deleted it but claimed he had deleted it on purpose”? I think it depends on the man’s personality, his mood at the time, and how he treats you.
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