Sorry for the sensitive question. I’d like to ask about stimulating a man’s chest (nipples).

Most of the women I’ve met have been into sex, so they naturally ask things like, “Do you like having your nipples played with?” or “Are your nipples sensitive?” Personally, I find it more enjoyable when someone is flexible enough to adapt her style to her partner, so when I’m asked those questions, I’m happy because I feel like she knows what she’s doing to some extent. I used to find it merely ticklish and didn’t get any pleasure from it either. But once, a woman knew exactly how to stimulate them, and it felt really good. That made me realize that it can be pleasurable depending on how it’s done. I think the same applies to women. If you know what kind of stimulation feels good to you, I’d suggest trying the same approach. Personally, I prefer combining it with other areas rather than focusing only on the chest.

Mac, I’m so jealous… You managed to develop your nipples, huh? I don’t feel anything there at all, but I desperately want to and wish I could make them an erogenous zone. I’ve been to hotels with over a hundred women through Universe Club, and I get the impression that more women go down on my nipples. Wouldn’t women feel embarrassed switching roles and immediately going down on a guy? It’s easier to move on to oral after warming things up with some nipple play, and plenty of men want attention there, so just go for it without hesitation. By the way, about 10% of women don’t feel anything in their nipples. Poor things.

While touching her nipples, you could ask, “Is it okay if I touch you here?” or “Does this feel good?” Someone who enjoys nipple stimulation will probably nod or respond. If she doesn’t like it, she’ll likely stay silent or say something like, “You don’t have to touch my nipples.” If that happens, just stop. Personally, I find it more exciting when she kisses me passionately while on top than when she licks my nipples lol.

On a fundamental level, have you ever wondered why men have nipples? They’re there for pleasure. After all, what other purpose do they serve? But because nipples are associated with femininity, men probably have an unconscious resistance to admitting that they can feel pleasure through them—as if doing so meant losing as a man. That’s where you should start: by becoming aware of it. Men who say, “I’m not a masochist, so I don’t feel anything in my chest,” simply haven’t realized this. So women should ask, “Then why do men have nipples?” The man will probably come up with some sophistry like, “They’re vestigial organs—like the appendix, which can cause appendicitis…” But that’s where a woman can show her skill. While gently brushing his nipple with a feather-light touch, she can say, “Do you really think that? Don’t you think God left them there so we could feel pleasure?” That skill is crucial. A truly skilled woman can awaken a man’s nipple sensitivity. In that sense, the person asking this question still has a long way to go. Blowjobs and nipple play are somewhat similar, but with a blowjob, there’s no resistance because it satisfies a man’s desire for control—treating the woman like a tool or a sexual slave. He can simply focus on the pleasure. With nipples, being teased can come with the humiliating feeling of having been reduced to a woman, so overcoming that requires even more skill from the woman than a blowjob does. She has to concentrate completely, watch the man’s reactions, and adjust the pressure and speed to suit him. Though, was this about licking rather than touching? Anyway, either works. I used to believe that nipples were just ticklish and that I couldn’t feel anything there. But a few years ago, a woman around twenty straddled me and pinned me down, then licked me with incredible skill while I was in a position like a high-school girl being held down. In that instant, I truly saw the light. I understood everything. I had discovered the truth. “A man’s nipples aren’t useless after all—they’re pleasure receptors.” Still, at that moment, I felt as though I had lost something. A trade-off. What I gained was pleasure. What I lost was… what, exactly? Is that what losing one’s virginity feels like for a woman?

I like having my nipples licked. Blowjobs feel good by default, of course, but this feels even better than a blowjob. As for whether a woman who licks nipples will also give blowjobs, some girls are completely unwilling to do that. Some won’t even give a blowjob. With women from a dating club, a little awkwardness can make them seem more genuine and inexperienced. It’s perfectly fine if she can’t lick nipples or give a blowjob. But if possible, I’d like her to do at least one of them… though I guess it depends on things like kissing and the relationship between you. Still, even if his girlfriend goes on an overseas trip, a man will remember a woman’s words during sex—“Is that all?”—for the rest of his life, while a woman will only remember the other parts of the trip… Women think about sex far less than men do, even when they’re in a relationship, so I think it’s best and most natural not to overthink it.

In my experience, about half the time, even if I take the lead at first, the roles switch at some point. In most of those cases, she starts by licking my nipples. I do think switching roles shows that she’s fairly proactive, but nipple-licking alone doesn’t make me feel that she’s particularly experienced. It’s more when I see her letting saliva drip and getting things really wet while giving me a blowjob, mixing in hand stimulation, and watching my reaction with an upward glance—that’s when I get the impression she may have experience with that sort of thing. This isn’t limited to the person asking the question, but I feel like a lot of women repeat the same routine without considering individual differences between men. I think many men explore how each woman responds and gradually develop a customized way of pleasuring her. As a result, they discover that some women are more sensitive in their chest, while others respond more below the waist; that some prefer deeper thrusting after fingers are inserted, while others prefer a circular, kneading motion; and that some react better when their buttocks or back are gently touched at the same time. Not only does it vary from person to person—it can also change depending on the relationship, how much trust has been built, and whether the other person has developed feelings for you. In that sense, this kind of “conversation” can sometimes convey more information than talking with words. Since you have a good opportunity here, why not explore things further in this direction? Taro

I thought it was pretty normal for a woman to lick a man’s chest. Even women who aren’t comfortable with oral sex will lick his chest. From now on, why not ask, “Does that feel good?” and judge from her response?

> Is it uncommon for a woman to lick a man’s chest? If we’re talking about whether it’s common or not, I feel that not many women would lick a man’s chest without him saying anything. > I’ve started wondering about it. I assume you’re thinking this because you want your partner to enjoy it too, but there is such a thing as going too far. Why not simply leave things as they are without asking? Men who want their chests licked would probably say so themselves, and even if you did it after he asked, I don’t think he’d see you negatively because of it. (It might be different from the second time onward, but I’m talking about the first time.)

I’m not a fan of having my nipples licked either. I let women know that when they lick them. In my personal experience, no one has ever asked beforehand. I don’t remember exactly how many women who licked my nipples also disliked having theirs licked, but I don’t think they were the majority.