How important is social status when it comes to getting offers?
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If I want to receive lots of offers from men, is it difficult to get them without an impressive title—such as being a student at a famous, highly selective university, a flight attendant, a receptionist at a major company, or a successful entertainer?
There can’t be that many women in those professions, so I assume most are ordinary full-time employees, part-timers, or work in the nightlife industry. What’s it really like?
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Based on my experience making inquiries, the women who tend to receive fewer offers are often freelancers, nightlife workers, or unemployed.
Women in entertainment or flight attendants may be popular, but they’re also seen as likely to ask for a higher allowance.
Since offers are made with that in mind, it’s not unusual for them not to receive many offers.
Interestingly, though, ordinary college students sometimes ask for a higher allowance than women in entertainment or flight attendants.
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Many men choose even their marriage partners based primarily on looks. It’s generally women who are looking for specific qualifications when they’re dating with marriage in mind.
Since papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) doesn’t involve getting married, I think men are even less concerned with a woman’s qualifications.
Of course, some men like celebrities or flight attendants. They may want to brag about dating someone like that—similar to housewives who judge their own social status by their husband’s profession.
Personally, though, celebrities and flight attendants seem like they’d be more trouble than they’re worth, so I wouldn’t go out of my way to approach them.
I guess men and women simply think about these things differently.
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Not necessarily.
I tend to hold back on making offers to women with impressive titles or backgrounds because they seem like they’d be expensive.
I think many papas want sex under the guise of dating with ordinary-looking college students or office ladies—not women working in the adult entertainment or nightlife industries.
Surprisingly, women with youthful, innocent-looking faces and a refined vibe tend to be very popular and receive lots of offers—like the “seju look,” an atmosphere reminiscent of a TV announcer, long dark hair, a wholesome appearance, or a dress.
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There’s a woman I’m currently seeing who’s a graduate student at one of Japan’s former Imperial Universities. Including my offer, she only received two offers, and I was the only one who actually arranged a date with her.
She’s a serious, lovely girl, but apparently she didn’t photograph very well, so she didn’t receive many offers.
*Her undergraduate degree is also from one of the former Imperial Universities, by the way.*
In my case, I usually decide whether to make an offer based on the impression I get from the video—which is harder to manipulate—and the staff’s comments.
At the branch I’m registered with, there don’t seem to be many nightlife workers or freeters. I’d say most are students, office workers, or people in the medical field.
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No, I don’t think that’s the case.
As you said, most members are ordinary students or working professionals, and those who are getting offers are receiving them despite that.
Just as working professionals don’t list their employers in their profiles, students don’t list their university names either. So I find it hard to agree with the claim that it’s difficult to get offers without those kinds of credentials.
Also, you mentioned that most members work in the nightlife industry, but I believe they’re actually a minority.
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The woman in her 40s who received nearly 30 offers for a question posted a little while ago didn’t seem to have any particularly impressive credentials.
Having a title or status does make it easier to receive offers, but even without one, an attractive woman can still get plenty of offers.
Recently, there was also a woman in her 20s who received 12 offers in just one day—by the day after registering. She didn’t have anything especially notable in terms of her background either.
So ultimately, I think it comes down to the woman’s own appeal.
In other words, social status or impressive credentials may often lead to more offers, but when it comes to what’s truly important, it’s the woman herself.
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