I’m starting to like my papa (a male supporter) a little, and I’d like to invite him out to dinner. What kind of message would make you happy to receive? For context, we first met last month and have only had dinner together once since then. We haven’t had an intimate relationship yet.

Want to invite her out for a meal? Do you mean that you’d like to treat her? Something simple like, “I found a great restaurant. Would you like to go together?” should be fine, shouldn’t it?

I’m a female member in my late 20s. I’m so in love with my unmarried, single papa on a monthly arrangement that it’s painful. I can’t hold back my feelings and end up saying things like, “I love you so much” and “I want to see you much more often”... 2024/08/23 08:09 Female, 20s, Universe female member https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17105 You’re the same person who posted this, right? You really do fall in love easily. I’m curious what happened with your previous papa—please tell us if you don’t mind. If you’d like, try looking up “Mac” at the Nagoya branch and send him a message saying, “You seem wonderful.” If you live nearby, I’d even be interested in meeting you once or so for dinner only. It sounds like papa-katsu has made your love life complicated, so I’d like to guide you to the point where you can date someone your own age through a normal encounter, without any money changing hands. I’ve never tried helping someone grow in that way before, so I’m a little intrigued.

What someone finds pleasing will vary from person to person—and depending on who they’re dealing with. It also depends on your previous conversations. The safest approach would be to base your message on something you’ve discussed before, but even then, there’s the question of what to highlight, as well as whether the tone and length of the message will appeal to them. Since you’re saying the next time will be your third meeting, I imagine they’d be happy to hear that you’ll let them have their way with you next time. That said, some people might prefer you to keep them waiting a little longer, while others may not want to have sex at all.