Tips Oct 30, 2024 19:50

Sorry for the trivial question. When a man says he’d like to take the lead during an intimate encounter, what would you like the woman to say in response?

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Older guys who lived through the old manzai boom all have an “Ikuyo-Kuruyo” living in their hearts, so I think it’s only natural for them to say “Ikuyo” and get “Kuruyo” in response. A variation is “Come here,” too. That also follows the “go ⇔ come” correlation, and I suppose verbal confirmation is important when you’re doing hands-on work. I’ve heard that railway workers even point and call out their checks. When I was dating an adult video actress, she replied, “Give it to me.” You hear that occasionally in adult videos, but that may have been the first time I’d heard it in private. Incidentally, in Japanese people say “iku” (“I’m going”), but in English they say “I’m coming,” so Ikuyo and Kuruyo have switched places. It’s a complete reversal of the straight man and the comic. When I got intimate with a Chinese woman who spoke only Chinese, she said “来了” (“I’m coming”), so China seems to follow the English-American style. Maybe that’s because Chinese, like English, uses SVO word order. Which brings me to Korea. Korean is one of the few languages with the same word order as Japanese. I’m guessing she’d say, “I’m going-nida!” So if I get the chance, I’ll have to test that theory. Taro
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Thank you! That desire to make him happy is so sweet—love it! When things get more intense as he’s about to finish, matching that with more passionate moaning can really heighten the mood. During missionary, giving him a tight hug and squeezing down there can feel great too. (Some women can do that apparently—they say they can control those muscles.) Simply saying “That feels good” during things, not just when finishing, would probably make him happy and add to the excitement. If I finish without saying I’m about to, I often get questioned with things like, “When did that happen?” or “You finished without saying anything?” So I make sure to say it as a matter of course, lol. By the way, when the muscles around the vagina tighten and twitch, I start feeling like I’m about to finish too.
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名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t actually say “I’m coming.” My movements just get faster, and at the end I press in hard, ejaculate, and go limp, so the woman can tell I’ve finished. Are there really that many men who say “I’m coming”? I’m surprised. Come to think of it, a lot of women do say, “I’m coming, I’m coming.” Women’s reactions after I finish are usually: 1. They close their eyes, open their mouths, keep panting, and lie still. 2. Their legs twitch. 3. They lightly pat my back with the hand they had wrapped around me—as if to say, “Good job.” Number one is the most common, followed by number two. I get number three occasionally. I wonder if there are any others? On the other hand, I’d like to ask the women here: quite a few of you ask, “Can I come? Can I come?” What are you actually expecting us to say? I usually say, “Yes, go ahead. I love a woman who comes. Come as much as you want.”
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
If the point of your question is how to please a man, then I feel that what a woman says when a man reaches his climax is probably only worth one or two points out of a woman’s overall impression of 100. It’s actually not that important. I think it’s better to focus on the bigger picture. That said, if everything else were already perfect and this were the only thing you didn’t know how to handle—if getting this one thing right would make any man completely fall for you and pay you 10 or 20 million yen—then I could understand why you’d be concerned about it. But I don’t think that’s how it works, so it seems like something you don’t need to worry about too much. The fact that you didn’t mention your age (perhaps because you didn’t want people pointing out again that your age had changed?), along with the way this is written like your usual survey posts—no particular context, just “What do you do?”—makes me wonder whether this might once again be a post by a troll or someone with multiple personalities.
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
More than that, I’m happier when a woman climaxes to the point where she says things like “Oh my God” or becomes unable to form words, has repeated orgasms, and ends up sweating all over. When she can still say things like “I’m close” or “Come inside,” it makes me feel like she still has enough composure to speak. If she isn’t drenched in sweat afterward, any words she says can sometimes end up killing the mood. That said, some men enjoy making a woman feel satisfied, while others want their partner to focus on pleasing them, and everyone has different preferences. It’s important to pick up on what that particular man likes. Just as some people grow fonder of each other the longer they’re together while others eventually get bored, everyone and every situation is different.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
The women I see often say things like, “Do it! Finish deep inside!” Since several of them have said this, I assumed it was just a standard line.
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🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
“No, don’t—don’t come yet. Ahh♡”
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