If a PJ who seemed better than your current frontrunner catches your eye, but things don’t develop into the kind of relationship you hoped for, would you ever go back to the original frontrunner?
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If so, what would make you go back?
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As far as Fuu is concerned, I don’t really rank them clearly as first, second, and so on. I think each of the women I’m seeing on monthly arrangements has her own good qualities.
For example, if it starts to feel like she’s being careless during sex, isn’t as considerate as she used to be, or is leaving my messages on read more often—basically, if I start to sense a lack of effort, I’ll tell her. If things don’t improve, she may drop in priority, or we may end things.
Some women have listened honestly, fixed the issue, and ended up being much better—so we started seeing each other more often than before.
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Suppose there are women ranked first and second.
If the woman in first place is no longer around, the second-place woman doesn’t become first. She remains in second, while first place is left vacant, and he starts looking for someone similar to the woman who was in first.
In other words, rather than his feelings returning, wouldn’t she simply remain second place the whole time?
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Strangely enough, I haven’t met anyone who surpasses the women I met at the beginning.
I may have been lucky to have such a great encounter right from the start.
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With a fickle man who can sweep you off your feet like that, I imagine he might come back again.
In my case, though, there’s no such thing as a temporary arrangement, so I don’t move on to someone else—and I don’t come back either.
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The rankings change all the time. The competition between first and second place is especially fierce.
Third place is relatively secure. She can’t move up to first or second, but she doesn’t drop to fourth either.
When the rankings do change, it’s usually because one of the women makes a mistake.
Recently, one of my dates had to cancel an adult relationship (intimate) date because she was feeling sick. I told her:
“No problem. You can’t help catching a cold, so let’s just count it as having happened. Keep the allowance I gave you in advance.”
At that point, it would have been nice if she’d at least made a gesture toward returning it—something like, “No, we should reschedule.” But she just said, “Thank you!” and left it at that.
I remember thinking, “Huh? She didn’t even make one gesture in return. Well, I guess that’s how it is,” and feeling a little disappointed.
That was when the woman in second place gave me an absolutely amazing date, and the rankings switched.
So basically, if the woman in first place makes a mistake and the woman in second place gives it her all on a date, the rankings can change.
You start thinking, “Yeah, this is the one after all.”
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I think there are.
At least, judging by my papa (a male supporter), I’d say that’s probably the case.
It’s not easy to find a woman who’s a perfect match and scores highly overall for you…
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I think some people do come back.
As for when, I imagine it’s just as you said: when things don’t develop into the kind of relationship they were hoping for, or when the other person turns out not to be what they expected.
I think it’s foolish to ask anyone other than the person involved about how they feel. Not everyone feels the same way about a given situation, nor do they all react in the same way.
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