Even with Type C, if the chemistry isn’t right, you may simply have dinner and part ways, so it shouldn’t be assumed that an adult relationship (intimate) will automatically happen. I think the problem is that many men don’t see it that way.
If you’re feeling unwell, it’s better to notify him through the staff. Depending on the man, he may prefer to reschedule.
If you only genuinely had time for dinner and nothing more from the outset despite meeting under Type C, you can’t really complain if he says you misrepresented your relationship type.
There’s a big difference between ending with dinner only because the chemistry wasn’t right and only having time for dinner from the beginning, so be careful.
Even with dating type C, both parties have the right to say no.
That’s only natural since this is free-form dating, but it’s also the biggest difference from a job. (Since services such as escorting are work, you generally can’t refuse.)
So, after receiving an offer, you can go on a dinner date and, if you feel that you just can’t be with that man, you’re free to turn him down if he asks you out again afterward.
However, the important thing is that with type C, if you turn him down that day, the arrangement ends there. It isn’t intended to mean “dinner on the first date, then decide from the second date onward.” If you want to decide what to do after the first date, you should choose B1 or B2 instead of C.
> If you turn him down because of your health or lack of time that day
If you accept an offer as type C but only have enough time for dinner on that day, the rule is to schedule it for another day when you have enough time for the possibility of continuing the relationship afterward. (This should be explained during the interview.)
Therefore, turning him down simply because of scheduling isn’t really an option. If you actually just didn’t like the man but declined by saying you didn’t have enough time, he may complain, and you’ll probably receive a negative rating as well.
As for your health, it’s hard to say. From the man’s perspective, he may wonder whether that really happens, but if you visibly look unwell during dinner, he may understand.
Based on the details of your question, I think it would be safer to choose B2. Even if you feel unwell, you can simply say, “Please invite me to dinner again next time.”
As a little experiment, I’ve tried making it easier to quickly find posts from the same person by their ID.
The questioner posted similar questions on May 28 and July 27—exactly a two-month cycle. I wonder if it has something to do with hormones or something?
Still, progress seems painfully slow. Will the next question be scheduled for November 25?
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As I understand it, just because it’s C doesn’t necessarily mean things will develop further.
Whether a man takes it as you rejecting any future relationship depends on your dates up to that point, how you turned him down, and his personality.
