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Sep 23, 2024 13:59
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It’s hard to make much money from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) without sex. I’m also going to the public employment office, but I don’t have any qualifications, so I’m worried about whether I’ll be able to find a job.
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Both men’s esthetic salons and delivery health services offer relaxation and stress relief, but they differ in several ways, including the services provided, how they are delivered, and their purpose. Here’s a summary of the differences.
1. Services provided
Men’s esthetic salons:
They mainly provide relaxation and massage services. Oil massages and lymphatic massages are common, with the goal of relieving physical fatigue.
They emphasize relaxation and beauty benefits, and estheticians carefully perform treatments using products such as aromatherapy oils.
They are not legally classified as adult entertainment businesses and do not provide sexual services.
Delivery health services:
Their purpose is to provide sexual services. They are a type of adult entertainment service and may offer services beyond massage.
A woman is dispatched to the customer’s home, hotel, or another location to provide the service in person.
2. Where the services are provided
Men’s esthetic salons:
Treatments are generally provided at dedicated salons. Since private rooms are available, customers can enjoy massages in a relaxing environment.
Delivery health services:
As the name suggests, these services are provided at a specified location, such as the customer’s home or a hotel. They are dispatch-based rather than salon-based services.
3. Legal differences
Men’s esthetic salons:
Since they do not fall under the laws regulating adult entertainment businesses, they do not provide sexual services. They are legal services intended for relaxation and stress relief.
Delivery health services:
They operate under the laws regulating adult entertainment businesses. As a result, providing sexual services is legally permitted.
Summary
Men’s esthetic salons specialize in relaxation and massage and do not provide sexual services.
Delivery health services fall under the adult entertainment industry, with sexual services as their primary purpose.
Since the purpose and content of each service are different, it’s important to choose based on your own preferences and needs.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re not too picky, there are jobs out there. The effective job-offers-to-applicants ratio is 1.24, meaning there are more than one job opening per applicant. During the bubble era, when the economy was at its strongest, it was around 1.5, so the difference isn’t that big.
If you’re motivated and willing to put up with things, you should be able to find work.
Otherwise, couldn’t you just have sex through papa-katsu? You could simply do it with papas you think you can handle, couldn’t you?
At a men’s relaxation salon or in the adult entertainment business, such as a delivery service, you have to provide services to every customer who comes, no matter how creepy they are. But with papa-katsu, women can choose the men (papas), and they don’t have to have sex with anyone they dislike.
I think it’s actually a pretty good system...
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
■ Men’s Esthetics
At what are commonly called “legit” men’s esthetics shops, the therapist massages a man wearing only disposable underwear using oil or powder. A legit shop will come close to—but never quite touch—the golden balls.
On the other hand, there are shops that aren’t legit, although they don’t have any particular name for them. In fact, these are probably the more common type.
The therapists repeatedly brush against the client’s testicles and shaft. As he gets fully aroused, his penis almost slips out of the disposable underwear, and some therapists touch him more than just brushing against him.
There are also variations, such as pressing the customer’s palm against their breasts, along with all sorts of other techniques.
Most popular therapists provide only the same services as at legit shops. However, therapists who can’t get repeat bookings often brush against the shaft repeatedly and, unable to refuse requests for a release from aroused customers, finish them off with their hands.
Providing releases is illegal, so raids may occur after reports from rival shops, and the therapists, owners, and sometimes even customers may be referred to prosecutors.
※I think quite a lot of shops turn a blind eye to hand jobs.
Apparently, some girls do offer intercourse. Actually, I know they do—I’ve been invited myself, so there’s no doubt about it.
Many male customers assume “men’s esthetics = hand jobs,” and until they become popular therapists, about eight out of ten customers ask them for hand jobs. A lot of girls end up mentally struggling because of this.
I often do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with men’s esthetics therapists, and for a while, offers from Universe Club dropped sharply.
Maybe I’ll go to a men’s esthetics shop again…
■ Delivery Health
At a delivery health service, both people get naked and do everything except intercourse, such as fellatio and kissing. However, some delivery health therapists do offer intercourse.
I assume the woman usually asks for extra money when it comes to intercourse, but I haven’t been to a delivery health service in over 20 years, so I don’t know what the current situation is.
I think many girls develop mental health issues because male customers keep demanding that they be allowed to have intercourse.
■ Summary
If you’re confident about your looks, I recommend men’s esthetics. Once you become a popular therapist, you can earn money without giving releases.
A popular men’s esthetics therapist I did papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with was consistently earning over two million yen a month without giving releases or even allowing body contact.
For papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with her, I paid an allowance of 100,000 yen per adult relationship (intimate), pay-per-meeting.
If you’re not confident about your looks, I suppose delivery health might be the better option.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
What is a delivery health service?
“Delivery health” refers to an escort-style massage service in Japan. It’s also called an on-call health service. There is no physical storefront; instead, female workers are sent to locations such as the customer’s home or a hotel to provide sexual services.
Men’s esthetics, on the other hand, mainly focuses on massages for men and providing an extraordinary, relaxing experience.
The clear difference between men’s esthetics and adult entertainment is that men’s esthetic salons do not provide any sexual services, such as touching the genitals, “release” services, or intercourse.
There are many elements that may lead customers to expect sexual services, such as massages extending down to the groin area near the genitals or therapists wearing sexy outfits. However, providing sexual services at a men’s esthetic salon would violate the law, so the establishments themselves do not offer them.
That said, some salons apparently set things up so that it is difficult to earn much from the treatments alone, effectively encouraging the women to provide sexual services secretly, without the salon’s knowledge, in order to make money.
Incidentally, when a men’s esthetic therapist is arrested, the police reportedly enter the room immediately after the male customer’s treatment, ask the customer whether there was a “release” service (apparently, men tend to answer honestly), and then confirm it with the woman before arresting her.
Apparently, they may not even be allowed to take a shower, so they are taken away while still covered in oil and questioned by the police in that state, which sounds awful. (Of course, that may only have been the case for that particular person, and perhaps some people are allowed to shower.)
In that sense, if you are going to work at a men’s esthetic salon, it seems safer not to engage in illegal acts such as providing “release” services, even if you cannot make enough money from the treatments alone.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
As I understand it, women working at men’s esthetic massage parlors who need more money start papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), while girls who can’t get offers through papa-katsu start working for delivery escort services.
I’ve never used either men’s esthetic massage or delivery escort services myself, so I don’t know the specifics of the work—though I can more or less imagine what it involves.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Men’s esthetic salons generally offer oil massages. Depending on the establishment, hand services may or may not be available.
Delivery health services involve oral sex.