I met a younger papa (a male supporter) here, and within a month, we had one café date and three dates involving an adult relationship (intimate), while chatting on LINE. That made four dates in total.
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I enjoyed being with him, and there was something about his genuine personality that drew me to him. We were also compatible, so I started developing feelings.
But when I messaged him to ask when we could meet next, he left it unread for three days (; ;).
This is the first time he’s ignored an unread message, so I’m really shaken.
Is he trying to tell me to read between the lines…? Is this his way of being kind?
I wish he had just clearly told me that we wouldn’t be seeing each other anymore (; ;).
Part of me is still waiting and hoping, and it’s getting a little painful.
I’d really appreciate any advice.
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If someone says, “We can’t see each other anymore,” and you ask why, you may end up feeling like the reason isn’t good enough.
In that case, I feel that simply cutting off contact without making another promise might actually be the kindest option.
Don’t get your hopes up—just wait for offers from other people. If he comes back, great. Though honestly, he probably won’t…
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The line, “I wish you’d just told me clearly that we wouldn’t be seeing each other anymore ( ; ; ),” sounds like it was written by a man. Did you accidentally enter the wrong gender?
It’s unread, not read and ignored, right? There’s a small possibility that he simply hasn’t happened to see it yet. So I think it might be worth waiting a little longer.
That said, sometimes what looks like an unread message turns out to mean you’ve been blocked, so you may want to check that as well.
If it’s still unread after another week or two, it probably means he wants to end things without saying so directly.
Let’s look for someone new.
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Isn’t he just aiming for intimacy without paying?
He targets older PJ women, makes them fall for him, and then tries to get intimacy for free.
If you genuinely want to see him even without an allowance, then go ahead—but that’s exactly what he’s hoping for.
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I think you’re simply being cut off. That’s what I do when I cut someone off, too.
The reason is that I’d want the same treatment if I were the one being cut off. Just stating the facts is enough.
But to be completely honest, it means I’ve lost interest in the other person. I neither like nor dislike them anymore. They’ve become a complete stranger again.
It’s a little different from ignoring someone. Ignoring someone means you still have some feelings left toward them—negative feelings, right?
I genuinely have nothing to say. Even if they say, “Remember when this happened, or that happened?” I may still remember it, but the emotions are gone.
That’s why I can’t write anything.
Just consider your encounter with that man as if it never happened. Forget about it.
It may seem cold, but that’s the kind of encounter and relationship it was from the beginning.
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