Tips Sep 12, 2024 13:53

This is about the two papas I’m currently seeing.

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One papa found a ¥1,000 discount coupon on the table at a love hotel, called the front desk, and had them apply the discount. The other papa noticed a sign on the table saying there was a free cake day and asked me, “Do you want some?” I happily said, “Yes!” But then he realized that today wasn’t the free cake day after all and said, “Today isn’t the free day,” and ended up not ordering any cake for me. So one of them actually uses discount coupons… And the other asked if I wanted cake, I said yes, but once he found out it wasn’t free, he wouldn’t order it for me… I understand wanting to save even a little money, but don’t they feel embarrassed or have any pride in front of a woman?
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ジョー・ルビコン
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
The only women who use love hotels are the Hakata Big-Busted Three Sisters. All three—the eldest, middle, and youngest—get far more worked up over the results of scratch cards than over discount coupons, rubbing them even more enthusiastically than they rub a penis. In other words, they’re happy to use discount coupons and the like, but deep down, they may think it’s just as stingy as you do. Still, when we think of the taxi fare we’re saving, we can’t stop. Please forgive us for being so cheap. And please don’t say, “I’m never letting you finish inside again.” As for the free cake, I personally believe that eating free cake at a love hotel will give you an upset stomach, so I stop them even when the three sisters want some. Instead, after finishing inside, I say, “Let’s go get Mont Blancs at that shop,” and take them to a cake shop near Ohori Park. I’ve never known the cakes there to be free, so I can’t say for sure, but if they ever had a free-cake day, I don’t think I’d go back. I don’t want to get sick. So I suppose nothing is more expensive than something free. Even the free hookups I’ve had in the past all ended up costing me dearly. So, questioner, whatever you do, don’t eat the free cake at a love hotel.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Whether they show their pride or not, they can already have sex, so I think there’s no need for them to show it. You probably just have to accept it as a transactional relationship and focus on getting the agreed-upon allowance. I save up LINE stickers too. I’m going on a trip soon using airline miles. A monthly partner who says she’s happy even with miles is a great woman! I might just fall for her~ It reminded me of an idol who once caused an uproar by saying she didn’t want to travel using miles. That’s exactly the kind of pointless pride I’m talking about. From a guy’s perspective, if you can take the trip, does it really matter how you pay for it?
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Even people with high incomes don’t necessarily spend freely. For example, some famous men who have amassed hundreds of millions through shareholder benefits apparently try to make full use of every perk in their daily lives. As long as he isn’t stingy with your allowance, what’s wrong with him being frugal in other areas?
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カズ
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Personally, women often tell me about available discount coupons, and I usually use them. I don’t find it embarrassing, and the women who tell me about them don’t seem embarrassed either.
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横断歩道
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ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you probably don’t have that kind of pride when it comes to this.
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Honestly, I also thought that since he had gone to the trouble of asking about the cake, she could have ordered one for him instead of treating it as a free service. But as for the discount mentioned earlier, I don’t see any problem with it. I’ve never come across a discount service through club activities, but if I did, I’d probably use it without hesitation.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Is this another post in that series criticizing a certain man from a little while back (or is it the same person)? Maybe you have too much time on your hands? As for the actual question: “Even though he asked, ‘Do you want some cake?’ and I said yes, he wouldn’t order it once he found out it cost extra.” That would definitely be disappointing. If you said you wanted some, then he should just order it. That’s really stingy. That said, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with using a discount voucher if you have one. When you think about discounts, is it wrong to use shareholder benefit coupons in front of a woman? Is it wrong to show a Disney Magic Kingdom Club ticket (now called the Corporate Program) and get discounted admission? Is it wrong to use accumulated miles to upgrade your seat? There are plenty of other examples too. I don’t think there’s anything particularly wrong with any of that. In fact, using them seems perfectly normal. Points and discount vouchers are just a regular part of everyday life, so being offended or having your pride hurt when someone uses them feels a bit strange to me.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m not trying to nitpick at all, but ultimately, this question makes it sound like the questioner themselves are a discount coupon or a free cake, since they’ve only managed to meet that kind of papa. Before asking the question, if they dislike those kinds of papas, they should be putting their energy into finding a more generous papa who isn’t like that. It’s such an obvious question that it feels like they’re practically asking for someone to make that very comeback. Is the questioner perhaps from Kansai? To sum it up in one line, the answer—or rather, the comeback—is: “Are you from Kansai or something?!” Sometimes I get the feeling that a questioner isn’t looking for an answer so much as expecting someone to make a snarky comeback. Ah, you’re right—they’re the same person as user 17167. Now I feel like I wasted my time writing an answer. Come to think of it, maybe the questioner should give that papa their own discount coupon so he’ll continue seeing them next time. And bringing a “free condom set” might help prevent him from going bareback.
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