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Is a skirt a must for the interview? Would it be okay to go in sexy jeans or a swimsuit?

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There’s no specific rule saying you can’t wear a certain type of outfit. So I think it’s best to choose clothes that bring out your own appeal as much as possible. That said, just like with a job interview, the fact that there are no explicit dress requirements doesn’t mean you can wear absolutely anything. Since it’s still an interview, you’re expected to dress in a way that won’t get you rejected. Of course, the person themselves matters more than their clothes, just as it does in a job interview. People who can pass regardless of what they wear will pass, while someone who’s only just on the borderline might get rejected because of their outfit. > Is it okay to go to the interview wearing sexy jeans or a swimsuit? I’m not sure whether the Japanese is just odd or whether you’re seriously planning to wear a swimsuit, but if you’re going “in a swimsuit,” I’d be concerned about whether you might get reported or stopped and questioned for walking around town or riding the train in one.
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For interviews and photo shoots, I think it’s a good idea to take inspiration from the outfits worn by news anchors or weather presenters. A skirt isn’t required, but there’s no point in wearing something that doesn’t make people look at your profile photo and think, “I’d like to meet her” or “I’d like to take her on a date.” I’ve heard that some women have their photos taken in swimsuits, but if you’re not looking for an adult relationship (intimate) or don’t want to highlight a voluptuous figure as your main appeal, I feel it’s better to avoid that. By the way, I believe they’ll lend you clothes for the shoot, so if you’re unsure, feel free to ask the staff for advice!
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
A skirt isn’t required—you could wear sexy jeans or even a swimsuit. But you should choose an outfit based on the kind of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) you want and the kind of papa (a male supporter) you’d like to date. A swimsuit will definitely catch men’s attention, but you can probably expect more offers from papas who prioritize sex appeal than from those who prefer a classy, refined look. Most papas come seeking an adult relationship (intimate), but if you wear a swimsuit, you’ll likely attract men with a stronger focus on the erotic side. If you enjoy sex and are fine with a straightforward, sex-focused transactional relationship, then go ahead and wear a swimsuit. If you have a good figure, you’ll get more offers and can earn your allowance quickly. That said, it sounds like dealing with a bunch of papas who are all intensely focused on sex could be pretty exhausting. Think of it as personal branding and marketing: your clothes and hairstyle should appeal to your target papas. For example, high-ranking papas who can take you to expensive restaurants may be less likely to choose a woman with bleached hair and heavy makeup. They can’t exactly take someone with bleached hair and jeans to a high-end restaurant, right...?
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名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
When you say “sexy jeans,” do you mean short jeans or distressed denim? Do young women really say “sexy jeans”? It sounds like something a middle-aged guy from the Showa era would say.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
There’s a detailed explanation in the FAQ: https://www.universe-group.jp/portal/ja/kb/articles/%E9%9D%A2%E6%8E%A5%E6%99%82%E3%82%84%E3%83%87%E3%83%BC%E3%83%88%E6%99%82%E3%81%AE%E6%9C%8D%E8%A3%85%E3%81%AF%E3%81%A9%E3%81%86%E3%81%97%E3%81%9F%E3%82%89%E3%81%84%E3%81%84%E3%81%A7%E3%81%99%E3%81%8B Some women do have profile photos in swimsuits, so taking photos in a swimsuit may be fine. However, I’d recommend avoiding going to the interview in a swimsuit, since that would mean walking around town dressed in one.
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