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Sep 7, 2024 15:00
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I’m asking because it seems like most of the people answering questions here are men. Do you stay in touch every day with the women you’re currently seeing?
I recently started seeing a papa (a male supporter), but I haven’t heard from him in three days. I’m wondering whether that’s normal or if it’s already over, lol.
5 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I only message to arrange and remind you about our next date.
No need for daily texts. I’m fine with you having a boyfriend, a fuck buddy, or other papas—I’ll support you.
I do papa-katsu by offering myself as a straightforward, no-drama papa.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It depends on the person.
Some women keep in touch regularly and message every day, while others only get in touch a few times a month.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I usually have around 10 girls on monthly arrangements, but I don’t message any of them every day. The one I contact most often is about once every two days.
I figure messaging them first might bother them, so I just wait for them to reach out and reply when they do.
Some only contact me when they want to invite me on a date.
That said, it’s true that I’m closer with the ones who message me more often.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I see—
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17139
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17146
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17153
These are all from the same person asking questions. So that’s what “Sorry for asking so many questions” was about.
It’s starting to feel a little persistent, so you probably shouldn’t message that papa (a male supporter) too often either. They may be getting a bit fed up with it.
If you’re just looking to kill time, why not try answering questions instead?
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
My monthly arrangements that have lasted over three years all average about one meeting every three days.
Things move along when we have errands, meetings, or even just random chats, but sometimes we don’t talk at all for a week.
Still, until things settle into a comfortable rhythm, you probably want to communicate a little more. Try developing a shared hobby.