I got emotional and ended up telling my papa (a male supporter) to decide whether we should break up or not.
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I don’t want to break up, but thinking about him had made me feel negative, so I said something I didn’t really mean.
He asked if I had started disliking him, and I said no. In the end, he said he didn’t want to break up either, but could this incident make him lose interest in me?
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When a woman in her twenties says something tsundere like, “You decide whether we should break up. It’s not that I hate you or anything,” it seems kind of cute from an outsider’s perspective.
It would be great if her papa (a male supporter) felt the same way, though…
It reminded me of an ex-girlfriend I lived with when I was a student. She was emotionally unstable and told me almost every day that she wanted to break up or go back to her parents’ house. It was fine at first, but once it happened more and more often, I got tired of it and ended the relationship.
Use it as a little spice, like Mac-san does.
Things get heated after a fight, don’t they? lol
At your next intimate encounter, tell her things like, “I really do love you after all,” “I can’t leave you,” or “We’re incredibly compatible,” then be passionate and devoted. It might get things fired up and keep her from losing interest—who knows? lol
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That alone wouldn’t make him lose interest.
The questioner probably still has feelings for the money and doesn’t really want to end things. But the papa (male supporter) will likely feel flattered, thinking, “She likes me, so no matter what she says, she’s not going anywhere.”
Showing a moderate amount of emotion now and then can add some spice.
That said, it’s all about how you use it. If you go too far, the relationship could end in one shot, so be careful with that.
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Yeah, that sounds fun. I’d love to go back and forth about this and that, arguing over what we like and dislike. I seriously haven’t done that in ages. I want to.
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They say that couples who argue are often close.
Since women at these clubs tend to be well-behaved, model types, showing a little bit of a different side can sometimes make you more appealing.
That said, this time, it doesn’t sound like you were complaining, speaking your mind, or letting your true self show.
Why not try expressing more of your honest feelings?
If you can open up completely, your relationship might grow deeper.
But if you only show part of yourself, you’re more likely to drift apart without ever becoming truly close.
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He may have decided to keep his distance, thinking, “She’ll probably get emotional again and say she wants to break things off…”
Nobody wants to deal with that kind of hassle. It’s time to grow up—you’re over 20, aren’t you?
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I think it’s understandable to lose interest in someone who acts emotionally and makes things complicated.
To me, being an adult means being able to take care of yourself.
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