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Difficulty ejaculating inside the vagina is a sensitive issue. I’ve found myself becoming conscious of it too, or feeling that way, and sometimes missing the timing and not being able to finish inside. Even among couples or married partners, the chances of being sexually compatible aren’t necessarily high. In fact, they may be quite low, because when people are in love, almost anything feels fulfilling, making their satisfaction seem high. But once those feelings cool, many couples apparently lose the desire to have sex at all. In your case, I think your boyfriend may be in a calm state where he isn’t as fulfilled as you might imagine. There also seem to be men who have little interest in sex with their wives or girlfriends, and your situation may be one of those cases. He may have difficulty ejaculating inside the vagina, and he may also have relatively little sexual interest in you. In such cases, that tendency apparently doesn’t change even after many years together—or rather, it seems that there isn’t necessarily any problem with it. If you can accept things as they are now, proceeding with the relationship or even getting married may not cause any difficulties, and things may not change at all. If the other person begins to show a willingness to change or cooperate, I think it’s worth approaching the matter positively. However, it may be better to avoid delving into an area that is extremely sensitive for him emotionally.

I feel it may be best for women not to bring up matters related to male sexual function too proactively, just to keep things smooth. Going without a condom is one option, I suppose. But since you said you don’t have the courage to do that, how about trying the pill? It can ease period pain and PMS, and there are other benefits too, like fuller breasts and clearer skin, so it can make things easier overall. Since you’re considering taking the pill, it might also be a good idea to get tested for STDs. If anything comes back positive, then it’s not a matter of courage or anything like that. By the way, I also prefer it when my partner finishes, if possible. I don’t know why, but it somehow makes me happy.

“Please copy the text below.” ??? ??? Is someone doing something behind the scenes? Are they asking multiple people to post because asking from the same place would reveal they’re the same person? Even so, I can’t really see what the benefit would be. It’s certainly a mysterious message. > Should I avoid bringing it up? Even if you do bring it up, it’s not as though it affects anyone else. If it isn’t causing a problem for either of them, I don’t think there’s any need to mention it. They seem to be worried about having children in the future, but if he can ejaculate through masturbation, I think he should be able to have children, so there’s probably no need to worry too much. I think they should set that concern aside and simply enjoy being intimate. That said, it seems that masturbating in an unsuitable way can sometimes make it difficult to ejaculate without strong stimulation, so that could be the cause. The issue is that if a woman who can provide strong stimulation down there comes along, he might be tempted to go to her instead. But if his partner isn’t dissatisfied, he has no reason to seek experiences with other women, so I think it’s fine to leave things as they are for now. Still, it might be a good idea to quietly work on improving your technique while you have the chance.

I think you should ask a doctor, but as the book says, it may be an ejaculation disorder. If he can ejaculate through masturbation, then obtaining a semen sample shouldn’t be a problem. It’s probably not something that will improve just by talking about it, so if I were you, I’d avoid bringing it up so as not to put pressure on him.