Haha, I’m guessing he was asking because he wanted to hear something like this—the “model answer”:
“My previous papa was awful, but now I feel truly valued.”
It might be a little tedious, but if you give him the answer he’s hoping for, I think he’ll be happy.
He seems pretty jealous, so it’s probably best not to talk about other partners or your past.
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Because you haven’t shared any specific details, I think the question—
“Were you treated well by that person?”
—was probably asked while wondering why you broke up (since they’re your ex, you’re no longer together, right?), perhaps imagining that you were the one who ended things because you weren’t being valued enough.
Responding with, “So you’re saying you don’t value me?” is overthinking it.
That said, maybe you currently feel that you aren’t being treated well.
It’s good to think things through and make adjustments as you continue seeing someone, but taking things in a negative direction will only hurt you, so I think you should try to be careful.
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Probably nothing deep behind it. I’m not sure whether he’s just feeling jealous about your ex or trying to show that he’s different, but try to stay calm and confident!!
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Were you bothered by the fact that they said, “Were you treated well by that person?”—using “by that person” rather than “by that person too”?
More importantly, your own impression after dating him for two years says far more about whether he truly values you.
When you want to know someone’s intentions, I think the best thing is to ask them directly. In my opinion, someone who can’t ask the person themselves and instead tries to settle the matter by asking strangers like this has poor communication skills.
Is this really the level of communication you have with someone you’ve been seeing for two years? Do you only meet once a year? Even with a more detached relationship with a sex worker, if you visited a few times a month and kept requesting her for several months, you’d probably develop this level of mutual understanding.
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