My papa (a male supporter) is 69, and lately he’s been discouraged, saying, “I can’t get or stay as hard as I used to, and it doesn’t last as long.”
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He seems to be considering seeing a doctor for ED treatment and taking medication such as Viagra. I’ve told him that every medication has side effects, so he doesn’t have to force himself to take anything, but…
Do men still want penetration even after turning 70 or 80—not just lying in bed together or taking a bath together?
Is it because that’s connected to their confidence as men?
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Oh! It’s Makeo-san! Long time no see.
I’m scared of medication. My partner once experienced heart palpitations and had to be taken to the hospital…
Wouldn’t eel liver or soft-shelled turtle be good options? Maybe start with traditional home remedies…
I wonder if people still want things like sleeping together or some touching, no matter how old they get.
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When it comes to medication, some people say things like, “I can’t take it because I have diabetes.”
I’ve never heard that diabetes means you can’t take it, though… But when you talk to them, they may also mention having high blood pressure or something similar.
You could suggest that they consult their doctor when getting a prescription. That said, someone who has no intention of taking it usually won’t bring up the idea of trying it in the first place.
So, if the other person says they’re thinking of taking it, I feel it would have been fine to say something like:
“I don’t mind, but why not give it a try?”
Whether someone wants penetration or not depends on the individual. Some people are perfectly happy just being affectionate together.
However, a man who says he’s thinking of taking medication is probably someone who wants penetration.
This isn’t really about confidence—it comes down to the person’s mindset.
Incidentally, men who aren’t involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) often say things like, “I’ve moved on from women.”
Even men who used to be big womanizers say that.
People are all different.
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69, huh? That’s a sexy number.
A woman will still put on makeup at 70 or 80, right? For a man, being intimate with a woman is his makeup.
I take medication every day, but I don’t really care if I die. In fact, if I can die after being with a woman, I’d have no regrets.
What about you, questioner? What are you living for?
Lying together or bathing together—what is this, nursing care? lol
I’m still active and doing well. Today, I had a threesome with two girls at lunchtime. I changed condoms four times, took turns, and of course finished in the end.
I’d been taking a break from posting on boards like this for personal reasons, but that’s no longer necessary. I’ll come back and post again when I feel like it.
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Yeah, I’d personally like to stay sexually active for life.
Sex is my hobby, so I’m worried I won’t be able to find meaning in life once I can’t do it anymore.
It’s like losing my only legal brain drug, lol.
You can take ED medication as long as you don’t have severe heart or liver disease. If you explain your situation to a doctor, they’ll tell you about any contraindications, so I think you should just take it instead of worrying about it.
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It depends on the person, doesn’t it?
Women’s sex drives vary from person to person, and so do their feelings about menopause—it can also depend on the situation.
The person answering isn’t your partner. I recommend talking things through with your partner directly.
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