My take-home income is around ¥1.1 million a month. I have a wife, two minor children, and a mortgage.
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Ideally, I’d like to occasionally spend time with one mistress. What do you think would be a reasonable monthly allowance for a primary partner?
I understand it depends on the person, but I’d appreciate hearing everyone’s opinions.
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“Can’t you even think of something like that for yourself?”
So I asked ChatGPT on your behalf, lol.
Here’s ChatGPT’s answer:
Generally speaking, relationships with a mistress can be complicated and depend on the individual circumstances, but here are some general guidelines.
The monthly amount of support for a mistress is usually determined by considering the following factors:
1. **Her standard of living and expectations:** It depends on the lifestyle and level of support she wants.
2. **Your income and expenses:** If your take-home pay is ¥1.1 million a month, you need to consider how much you can reasonably spend from that.
3. **Your mortgage and family expenses:** It’s important to prioritize your family and mortgage payments.
As for a specific amount, ¥50,000 to ¥200,000 is often considered a typical range, though some people pay more than that. When making payments, it’s important to ensure that they don’t put a strain on your family’s standard of living.
Also, relationships with a mistress can involve ethical and legal risks, so those should be carefully considered as well.
↑Wow—
That’s surprisingly spot-on, right down to the cautions, lol.
Pretty soon, humans are going to be replaced when it comes to giving advice.
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> You have a wife, two minor children, and a mortgage on your home.
With take-home pay of ¥1.1 million a month under those circumstances, I think it would be difficult to support another woman in addition to your family—unless you have assets worth several hundred million yen that you can spend purely on leisure.
Rather than taking on the responsibility of sending her money every month, it may be less likely to arouse suspicion and less of a financial burden if you meet once a month for a set amount in a mutually convenient arrangement.
As I’m sure you understand, your family and mortgage payments come first. A mistress should be a distant second or third priority, so start small.
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I’d like to calculate it based on how much I’d need from my main papa (a male supporter) to live comfortably.
Ideally, I’d want him to be able to provide around ¥250,000–¥300,000 a month.
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Writing down your monthly income isn’t really relevant.
Try calculating an amount that won’t raise your wife’s suspicions. If she finds out, it defeats the whole purpose, so set a safe budget.
If your take-home pay is around ¥1.1 million a month, you may not have that much available to spend.
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It depends on whether you’re looking for something closer to a mistress arrangement or a romantic relationship, but in your case, it sounds more like the former than the latter.
At your age, I think it would be difficult to enjoy things ideally unless you already have a main mistress.
As I write this, I’m wondering if this is just bait… But I do enjoy taking the bait, so I’ll answer anyway…
If you’re registered with Universe, you may be able to find someone to fill that role fairly quickly. In that case, I think spending money in ways that resonate with her, along with anticipating her needs, will also be important.
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It depends on the person, but what exactly are you expecting us to do with your income?
Your income has nothing to do with the monthly allowance a woman would be comfortable with. The amount can vary widely—from zero to several million yen, or possibly even more.
If you want to know how much you can afford to spend on entertainment, consult a financial planner.
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