It depends on the person, but I feel that many men over 50 take a long time to finish. After being penetrated for more than 30 minutes, I start to feel sore and irritated.

I also tend to take a while, but I can finish when she seems genuinely into it, hugs me tightly, or tightens up down there during the moment. Men have positions and angles they prefer too, so try finding what works for him and give him that, lol. Make sure to moan properly and act like you’re enjoying it. The key is balancing enthusiasm with a little shyness. Don’t be too forward, but don’t be overly bashful either—find the right balance. Pay close attention to your partner and do your best.

I stop after 15 minutes too. If he keeps going beyond that, clearly misunderstanding the terms, I’d end things right away. It probably won’t do any good, but I’d point it out once. If I’m already prepared to walk away, I might negotiate an extension fee for every additional 15 minutes. The closer we get, the easier it is for me to finish—but getting to that point is the difficult part.

Being made to continue until it starts hurting… poor thing. If you want to continue seeing those papa (male supporters), it might be a good idea to have them provide lubricant—or bring your own. And if it still hurts, be honest and say, “It’s painful now. Could you please stop?” A papa who genuinely cares about you wouldn’t make you feel that miserable. Being intimate with papas who make you feel happy and want to spend more time together shouldn’t hurt.

As men get older, it’s true that ordinary stimulation may no longer be enough to get them there. The only thing that may still provide stimulation is the woman’s responses—but with all that experience, they’ve become discerning, so obvious acting can actually make them lose interest even more. If you and this man become more compatible, or if you genuinely start enjoying yourself, I think even a man who usually takes a long time to finish could get excited and climax within three minutes. As for what to do, I think it would be best to stop penetration before you start feeling sore—or rather, as soon as you stop enjoying it. Above all, I think the best approach is to focus solely on your own satisfaction. If you do that, a man who takes a long time to finish can still feel completely satisfied even without ejaculating. Of course, he may still want to climax, but your satisfaction as his partner matters even more to him. A fulfilling 30 or 15 minutes can deepen your relationship more than a drawn-out hour and a half. It’s entirely possible that you could climax within five or ten minutes and he could finish in three, making those 15 minutes more satisfying overall. No one can sprint at full speed for two or three minutes straight, so three minutes is probably plenty for both partners to reach their peak.

I think it can be solved with reactions and techniques that turn men on. Personally, if my partner is boring, I probably wouldn’t climax even after ten minutes of thrusting, so I’d stop partway through.